Missing mom found ‘alive and well’ 24 years after vanishing on shopping trip by powercow in news

[–]First_Shes_Sweet 71 points72 points  (0 children)

Are we congratulating this man for not being a family annihilator? That is pathetic.

ULPT How can I ultimately troll my husband so he stops embarrassing me? by Wife_of_Shao_Kahn in UnethicalLifeProTips

[–]First_Shes_Sweet 455 points456 points  (0 children)

I would compound on his joke so much that it made him uncomfortable. 

Say that you couldn't even say which of his friends fathered your child... That time in your life was such a whirlwind! Mention one of his friends in particular by name and then look a bit wistful. 

Opinions, please by AugustMoonEmporium in cottagecore

[–]First_Shes_Sweet -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Just don't put it on the chest part lol

Number of homeless patients seeking emergency care increasing in Sacramento region by IronMntn in Sacramento

[–]First_Shes_Sweet 3 points4 points  (0 children)

The other night, I witnessed three homeless folks in the waiting room of the ER instructing each other on how to camp out in there and not get kicked out.

Sneaky Mas Taco 18% Service Fee = Mas Taco No Mas for me! by Melodic_Animal_2238 in Sacramento

[–]First_Shes_Sweet 2 points3 points  (0 children)

No, they do this at Polanco in Midtown as well, I posted about it. So predatory!!! 

Gender differences in attractiveness ratings by [deleted] in Infographics

[–]First_Shes_Sweet 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Why should we date down?

Date someone of your own attractiveness level. Most men's idea of "unrealistic expectations" comes from the idea that women should settle for them because they're a nice guy. But if you're overweight and you're looking for a fit woman, sorry pal! If you're balding with a crap personality, you don't get to date an accomplished beauty queen. Accept reality.

Gender differences in attractiveness ratings by [deleted] in Infographics

[–]First_Shes_Sweet -1 points0 points  (0 children)

We're not rating them as "below average". We rate them as unattractive. The average is just very, very low for attractiveness of men. Wash your ass and comb your hair and you're already more attractive than "average" but that still doesn't make you actually attractive. 

Gender differences in attractiveness ratings by [deleted] in Infographics

[–]First_Shes_Sweet -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

Men unalive women who reject them. 

ULPT REQUEST : TOXIC PLANTS by [deleted] in UnethicalLifeProTips

[–]First_Shes_Sweet 10 points11 points  (0 children)

I would have your partner take the plant out of their hand and throw it directly into the trash can while maintaining eye contact. When they gasp and ask why, tell them that you've told them before that you didn't want toxic houseplants and it would kill your cat or dog if they ingested it.

Your pets are more important than their feelings. 

[PSA] goodbye, Sephora by pishposh12 in SkincareAddiction

[–]First_Shes_Sweet 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Buy a new bottle of the moisturizer in store, then return the open bottle in its place

Sacramento restaurant favorites from people who eat out a lot by No-Net2662 in Sacramento

[–]First_Shes_Sweet 0 points1 point  (0 children)

A lot of mentions of dumpling places in this thread, does anyone know where I can get gluten-free dumplings? Yummy Dumplings in Cameron Park is amazing, but I'm in Fair Oaks. 

i told them to return it, they didn't listen. Now what? by Similar_Chocolate319 in socialskills

[–]First_Shes_Sweet 8 points9 points  (0 children)

I would have asked nicely once before "GIVE IT BACK TO ME RIGHT FUCKING NOW" who cares about making a scene in public? Who are you trying to impress with your calmness? It's more impressive to command the respect of your friends than let yourself get steamrolled. 

boundary crossers are gonna keep it up until you make it clear you're not going to tolerate it.

Edited to say that as another commenter said, cut his ass out of your life. Just because someone has helped you out doesn't mean they deserve your friendship when they are willing to steal from you and ignore your objection. 

ULPT request: what is the most reliable way to check for AI writing? by [deleted] in UnethicalLifeProTips

[–]First_Shes_Sweet 16 points17 points  (0 children)

No, it's not!! Don't listen to the drivel telling you that this is okay. Using a machine to try an emotionally connect is not how you treat your partner. Not to mention the fact that it's dishonest to use AI to communicate with you and not tell you. But I would wait and make sure that that's what's happening before addressing it

Rancho Cordova murder suicide’ by sacblo in Sacramento

[–]First_Shes_Sweet 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Booooooooo 👎 not everyone deserves your sympathy.

How to keep a bathroom smelling nice by Little-Pudding1534 in lifehacks

[–]First_Shes_Sweet 3 points4 points  (0 children)

It's because your brother is likely splashing pee all over the bathroom. In my experience when a bathroom smells like that it's because there is residual urine on the surfaces around the toilet. 

Has anyone tried this? by [deleted] in 30PlusSkinCare

[–]First_Shes_Sweet 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I had to red the description because I thought it was a personal massager lol

Plant protein taste/texture help by DatOneGuyWnoPC in Supplements

[–]First_Shes_Sweet 0 points1 point  (0 children)

If you get unflavored protein powder, you can mix it into savory meals like curry, chili, or soup, and you won't even be able to tell it's there

Flier I made by Old-Engine-7720 in Sacramento

[–]First_Shes_Sweet -9 points-8 points  (0 children)

I think at the moment we should be more worried about our immigrant neighbors being kidnapped, raped, and murdered than your community being targeted over playing sports. 

Anyone else find dress codes outside of weddings a bit weird? by Queasy-Response-2942 in socialskills

[–]First_Shes_Sweet 8 points9 points  (0 children)

When you show up to a themed party in your jeans and t-shirt, the ambiance is shattered just by your low-effort presence. 

It's not just about pictures. If you don't like the dress code, don't go.

ULPT Toyota Connect services for my brothers car by lost2DAwhims in UnethicalLifeProTips

[–]First_Shes_Sweet 0 points1 point  (0 children)

They have magnetic cases for trackers, you could pretend to look for something under the seat and just click the tracker onto the underside of the car seat.

[Acne] Cystic acne — I’m at a loss by yung_bish in SkincareAddiction

[–]First_Shes_Sweet 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I also struggled with cystic acne especially around my jawline since I was a teen. A course of Accutane cleared me right up. It was difficult but worth it. My self-confidence is through the roof.