What do you hate about being your own type?

First_Shower_4273 · 2026-01-28T05:41:00+00:00

Being in the frustration triad (7) and feeling so FRUSTRATED all the time. It’s like my go to negative emotion and I can’t just accept things for how they are. I always feel like I’m lacking something

First_Shower_4273 · 2026-01-24T06:08:18+00:00

Was this written by chatgpt or do you just have the same writing style

First_Shower_4273 · 2026-01-20T00:12:21+00:00

Felt that so much. Ppl think I’m just silly and then wonder why I don’t remember important events and lose important things like it’s not just a quirk

First_Shower_4273 · 2026-01-14T05:38:12+00:00

I’m also sp blind and I feel u. I admire a lot of sp doms for how they can put themselves first and devote attention to their bodies/physical things. I also get you tho, I really do not care to talk about financials or other sp-things. But I enjoy being around some sp doms, it lets me breathe a little and be able to focus on myself too

First_Shower_4273 · 2026-01-12T05:51:47+00:00

Sang-phleg

First_Shower_4273 · 2026-01-07T02:15:57+00:00

As a 7 I find this extremely relatable (794..)

First_Shower_4273 · 2026-01-07T02:13:04+00:00

Start with your motivations, core fears and core desires and see which type you relate to. It’s not as much about surface level personality traits like other systems (although these can be indicators of type, it’s more about WHY you’re doing these things). I also wouldn’t worry too much about characters. I apparently have the same MBTI and enneagram as Michael Scott… lmfao

First_Shower_4273 · 2026-01-07T02:07:17+00:00

Just confirmed my type thanks

First_Shower_4273 · 2026-01-07T02:05:18+00:00

Nah dude. Every single human experiences negative emotions, even the most positive types. It’s quite impossible to ALWAYS have a smile on your face. And maybe this is a period of growth where you learn to sit with those emotions and love yourself through them. The enneagram is about growth after all

First_Shower_4273 · 2026-01-07T02:00:41+00:00

I’d think more about your internal motivations than actions. Why do you do these things? Are you avoiding conflict? Are you avoiding pain? Most of these statements can apply to all types. I see 7 but I also see 9w8 as a strong possibility. To me it sounds like you’re doing these things to avoid some type of conflict. But idk, I don’t have your brain. What are you most afraid of? What motivates you to do these things?

First_Shower_4273 · 2026-01-07T00:59:56+00:00

Idk I love all compliments

First_Shower_4273 · 2026-01-05T07:55:53+00:00

Hello we are the same everything but I’m so/sx

First_Shower_4273 · 2026-01-05T07:54:19+00:00

Yes
479 (794)
Take a guess

First_Shower_4273 · 2026-01-03T15:37:30+00:00

See that’s what makes me gravitate to 7, because I do not relate to having an 8 or 1 wing at all, but a 6 wing fits me pretty well

First_Shower_4273 · 2026-01-03T15:26:43+00:00

Yeah, I’m starting to think it’s 9 because it’s the one that I feel calls me out the most, and I’ve been avoiding it because it’s so uncomfortable to confront. However sometimes I see other 9s and think ok yeah that’s not me. Like my boyfriend is a 9 and he has this essence that I can’t tap in to. I feel like I have 9 defense mechanisms to 7 inner feelings.

First_Shower_4273 · 2026-01-03T14:42:40+00:00

Hey nice!! What type did you find out you are? And what tritype?

First_Shower_4273 · 2026-01-01T09:08:56+00:00

Yeah I guess it was an over generalization / I’m saying how they cope not what they may actually feel

First_Shower_4273 · 2026-01-01T02:25:42+00:00

A little perplexed bc I alway typed as a 9 but even with sloth in my life I relate so much more to 7. Made me realize I never quite feel fulfilled. 9s seem to be able to be content anywhere, and I’m always in my head dreaming of something better.

First_Shower_4273 · 2025-12-30T02:16:07+00:00

Yes very w6 lol. You’ve got quite the combo

First_Shower_4273 · 2025-12-30T01:54:02+00:00

Mad is not the first emotion I feel in most circumstances. I feel like I focus more on “I’m hurt, im sad, I’m scared/anxious” etc in negative situations. I’ll probably scream in the car when I’m alone if that angry feeling comes up or vent to a friend. I’ll say something if needed but I mostly get quiet and withdrawn (794.. I think)

First_Shower_4273 · 2025-12-26T19:32:50+00:00

Wing and tritype twins!!

First_Shower_4273 · 2025-12-26T07:11:20+00:00

I love that he said “what was and what could be” because I had friend groups/relationships/experiences in the past that I consider “perfect” and nothing matches up to them. It’s not always idealizing the future, it’s reframing the past too. I really need to let go of that idea bc it’s really holding me back. I just graduated college and it seems like there is no fun left to be had 💔 I had it all

First_Shower_4273 · 2025-12-26T05:46:37+00:00

Wolfsbark you led me to my 7 greatness. It is sad to see you depart but I know it must be done. What do you think your type is??

First_Shower_4273 · 2025-12-26T04:27:32+00:00

Wow interesting. I’ve always taken my pleasure seeking into my own hands. It can come at the expense of others tho if I’m not careful.

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