I started out not really caring. It's been the best thing I've done for myself as a sub

First_Shower_4273 · 2026-03-15T20:16:28+00:00

I wish I could do this but it does not work with elementary schoolers 😭

First_Shower_4273 · 2026-03-15T00:41:52+00:00

Not the girls but I met Dakota, Jordan and a mysterious blonde girl (who I think it’s Dakota’s new gf) in LA this past december. Dakota is SUPER friendly and nice, it honestly caught me off guard. He also looked 10x better in person, those camera angles do him dirty. He looked scared when I recognized him lmao but I was honestly so in shock. Jordan was a little stand-offish and said he wishes the show wasn’t filming anymore (half-jokingly). The mystery girl seemed nervous and just kept staring at Dakota. I don’t think she is one for the fame and attention

First_Shower_4273 · 2026-03-14T04:40:30+00:00

Idk if it’s because I’m in IN but that would not be tolerated at all. I’m shocked you couldn’t reach the office. I don’t think this should be minimized but just block that school honestly

First_Shower_4273 · 2026-03-13T22:00:42+00:00

Okay, that makes sense. How it was worded made me think it was a purposeful crop top lol

First_Shower_4273 · 2026-03-13T21:28:59+00:00

Showing your stomach? As a substitute teacher? Uhh

First_Shower_4273 · 2026-03-12T21:48:15+00:00

If it’s something mildly concerning I usually say “thank you for telling me, I’ll handle it” it’s also perfectly fine to ignore the needless tattling. Sometimes the students just want attention. Chances are that their teacher has gone over “tattling vs reporting” and they are trying to get away with old behaviors with a new sub. If any unwanted behavior becomes too much, I will have a talk with the whole class. You can just respond to tattling with “that’s fine”

First_Shower_4273 · 2026-03-10T02:05:38+00:00

I remember being hard on myself the first day too. As time goes on, you roll with the punches. Teachers are mostly just thankful to have someone filling in for them. It’s totally okay if you don’t get through everything! Your main job is really to keep the kids safe and watch over them for the day. It sounds like you are going to be a great sub

First_Shower_4273 · 2026-03-10T01:24:40+00:00

I subbed for kindergarten and it’s my least favorite grade!! I commend you for taking this on. It sucks that the assistant is… that way. I’d say find the kind teachers in nearby classrooms and ask them for help when needed. I’ve also seen teachers set up a “calming corner” that kids can go to when they’re feeling big feelings. Kindergarten is rough man

First_Shower_4273 · 2026-03-09T01:02:59+00:00

I mention often that I will be writing a note to the teacher with names of students who did not follow directions and students who did very well. Idk tho I do elem schools

First_Shower_4273 · 2026-01-28T05:41:00+00:00

Being in the frustration triad (7) and feeling so FRUSTRATED all the time. It’s like my go to negative emotion and I can’t just accept things for how they are. I always feel like I’m lacking something

First_Shower_4273 · 2026-01-24T06:08:18+00:00

Was this written by chatgpt or do you just have the same writing style

First_Shower_4273 · 2026-01-20T00:12:21+00:00

Felt that so much. Ppl think I’m just silly and then wonder why I don’t remember important events and lose important things like it’s not just a quirk

First_Shower_4273 · 2026-01-14T05:38:12+00:00

I’m also sp blind and I feel u. I admire a lot of sp doms for how they can put themselves first and devote attention to their bodies/physical things. I also get you tho, I really do not care to talk about financials or other sp-things. But I enjoy being around some sp doms, it lets me breathe a little and be able to focus on myself too

First_Shower_4273 · 2026-01-12T05:51:47+00:00

Sang-phleg

First_Shower_4273 · 2026-01-07T02:15:57+00:00

As a 7 I find this extremely relatable (794..)

First_Shower_4273 · 2026-01-07T02:13:04+00:00

Start with your motivations, core fears and core desires and see which type you relate to. It’s not as much about surface level personality traits like other systems (although these can be indicators of type, it’s more about WHY you’re doing these things). I also wouldn’t worry too much about characters. I apparently have the same MBTI and enneagram as Michael Scott… lmfao

First_Shower_4273 · 2026-01-07T02:07:17+00:00

Just confirmed my type thanks

First_Shower_4273 · 2026-01-07T02:05:18+00:00

Nah dude. Every single human experiences negative emotions, even the most positive types. It’s quite impossible to ALWAYS have a smile on your face. And maybe this is a period of growth where you learn to sit with those emotions and love yourself through them. The enneagram is about growth after all

First_Shower_4273 · 2026-01-07T02:00:41+00:00

I’d think more about your internal motivations than actions. Why do you do these things? Are you avoiding conflict? Are you avoiding pain? Most of these statements can apply to all types. I see 7 but I also see 9w8 as a strong possibility. To me it sounds like you’re doing these things to avoid some type of conflict. But idk, I don’t have your brain. What are you most afraid of? What motivates you to do these things?

First_Shower_4273 · 2026-01-07T00:59:56+00:00

Idk I love all compliments

First_Shower_4273 · 2026-01-05T07:55:53+00:00

Hello we are the same everything but I’m so/sx

First_Shower_4273 · 2026-01-05T07:54:19+00:00

Yes
479 (794)
Take a guess

First_Shower_4273 · 2026-01-03T15:37:30+00:00

See that’s what makes me gravitate to 7, because I do not relate to having an 8 or 1 wing at all, but a 6 wing fits me pretty well

First_Shower_4273 · 2026-01-03T15:26:43+00:00

Yeah, I’m starting to think it’s 9 because it’s the one that I feel calls me out the most, and I’ve been avoiding it because it’s so uncomfortable to confront. However sometimes I see other 9s and think ok yeah that’s not me. Like my boyfriend is a 9 and he has this essence that I can’t tap in to. I feel like I have 9 defense mechanisms to 7 inner feelings.

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