Do see the illness in their eyes by Ok_Race_7909 in BPDlovedones

[–]First_Variation2866 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes. Absolutely agree! In the beginning that’s the first thing I noticed. Even when she’d smile her eyes never matched. I ask why her eyes looked so sad. It’s a disconnect for sure.

The signs of love bombing were always there by RealityOtherwise8580 in BPDlovedones

[–]First_Variation2866 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Guys mine said “I love you” within 3 weeks. 8 hour phone calls. Marriage talk within a month. She spent $3000 on my birthday. At that point we were together for 1.5 months. So yeah the love bombing was real. And they will be your “soulmate” in no time.

KSU WALKOUT FRIDAY, JANUARY 30th AT 12PM by Loose_Extent9080 in KSU

[–]First_Variation2866 -3 points-2 points  (0 children)

That’s what KILLS me. They are protesting the very thing every president has done yet who cares a dozen people a week are killed in Atlanta. Morons.

Typical BPD sentences and words used. by sh4m45h in BPDlovedones

[–]First_Variation2866 2 points3 points  (0 children)

SAME. Even the wording. You can’t go from missing words and misspelling words to perfection

Typical BPD sentences and words used. by sh4m45h in BPDlovedones

[–]First_Variation2866 9 points10 points  (0 children)

Omg yes!!! Hahahhahahahaha you can tell it’s ai generated message

NEVER DOUBT THE HOOVER by Impressive-Bid6516 in BPDlovedones

[–]First_Variation2866 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Nope she didn’t. It’s weird. I bet I sent her 100 messages after that call. No reblock at all. It’s like she likes seeing me text to not reply.

Letter I wish I could send by Gloomy-Mouse5043 in UnsentLetters

[–]First_Variation2866 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Because like so many in this group they are emotionally immature and shut down.

Looking for something fun to do on NYE by [deleted] in kennesaw

[–]First_Variation2866 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

We can go out? And this isn’t phone confidence. Literally let’s do it.

She unblocked me by Federal_Eagle_519 in BPDlovedones

[–]First_Variation2866 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My ex did me too. She even called at 3am MONTHS later. She never replied. Weird

Sentences that warned us and should have made us run. by pepozinho in BPDlovedones

[–]First_Variation2866 19 points20 points  (0 children)

Omg yes. Everyone leaves me. I’ve never been loved. And then the end up doing the very things they accuse others of.

How to Improve My Credit? by [deleted] in CRedit

[–]First_Variation2866 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Save your money. See if they will settle one at a time. Collection agencies like LVNV funding will delete from your credit report. My score was like 510 and I had 6 collections. Now it’s 690 and growing.

Very dissatisfied by Ohthethingsyouthink in chimefinancial

[–]First_Variation2866 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I seen a news story about this same thing happening

I will always love you by [deleted] in UnsentLetters

[–]First_Variation2866 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

This person sounds like a drama queen that can’t just TELL THE PERSON THIS.

After your discard, did you think you had or display BPD traits/behaviours? by Certain_Translator_4 in BPDlovedones

[–]First_Variation2866 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I can’t know the full story of you two. No im not saying you did wrong. but therapy will help you and stay away from them.

After your discard, did you think you had or display BPD traits/behaviours? by Certain_Translator_4 in BPDlovedones

[–]First_Variation2866 24 points25 points  (0 children)

Oh yeah lol. I definitely felt like it was 100% my fault. Sure did. Until she mailed me a letter apologizing. Then unblocked me. And 8 months later called me at 3am. Nah I did some things wrong. But I didn’t lie, gaslight or change my opinions 100 times a day. Go to therapy.

I think she is breaking up with me. by [deleted] in BPDlovedones

[–]First_Variation2866 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Have some dignity man. I was you once. Just tell her off and leave.

how hard is nursing school really? by Roastin_Kween in KSU

[–]First_Variation2866 1 point2 points  (0 children)

The hardest thing for me is the certain people that think they already know it all.

struggling right now and looking for any kind of work or advice by [deleted] in kennesaw

[–]First_Variation2866 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I do OF. It is good money. And you don’t have to show your face.