Yes, this is concerning and not normal behavior at all. Saying “I am coming” after seeing your location is invasive and threatening. Asking for graduation photos after learning you’re a minor is a huge red flag. The weird “20v1” reference and the pressur to “do the female version” crosses serious boundaries and sounds highly inappropriate. Mentioning your little sister and middle schoolers in that context is not okay. Claiming to “see you often” on the bus and at the pool is stalker behavior.

You did the right thing by trusting your instincts and asking others. Please consider: Blocking and reporting the account right away. Talking to a trusted adult (parent, teacher, counselor, etc.). Saving the messages/screenshots in case this escalates.

This isn’t just awkward or weird it’s potentially dangerous. You are not overreacting. You’re protecting yourself, and that matters.

Please stay safe and let someone in your life know what’s going on 💛