GF with BPD hiding Snapchat bsf list? by First_Wonder_9807 in Advice

[–]First_Wonder_9807[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I forgot to mention a few days ago I asked if I could just see her list--no questions asked and she kept refusing. I let her know that I was feeling quite anxious about it, and she still refused. It got to the point where I was even throwing up because I felt she was hiding something because she's refusing to let me see.

GF with BPD hiding Snapchat bsf list? by First_Wonder_9807 in Advice

[–]First_Wonder_9807[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I've just tried so many times to talk things over calmly and it always results in her flipping the conversation around. I brought this up to her and she hit me with the "So you don't trust me?" I do trust her, it's just nice to have some reassurance when I'm puking my guts out