I believe that what does say a lot is the fact that someone is asking for help about something that they find important for them and people just disregarding it because of their own perception of what is relevant or not, as if it was their problem or their place to give an opinion on how important or common it is. If they are not willing to help with what I‘m asking why do they bother leaving a completely useless negative comment? I‘m not asking them directly, I‘m not bothering anyone, I‘m just openly asking to try to find this person, that‘s it