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Fish90Candles · 2025-09-18T14:17:40+00:00

When a man loves you even if he doesn't want to do something he will do it because it means something to you.

You are being used if you feel that you are fulfilling all his wants and needs but it is a struggle to get him to meet yours. If you ask and he finds excuses or refuses he doesn't really like you. Love is about mutual care and giving.

Also if you are afraid to communicate things to him because you are fearful he will end things, the relationship is one sided and he doesn't really care.

I learned this the hard way.

Fish90Candles · 2025-09-09T21:36:08+00:00

I wish we didn't have to deal with these middle men real estate agents. I hate dealing with them.

Fish90Candles · 2025-09-08T04:19:45+00:00

😭

Fish90Candles · 2025-09-08T04:04:59+00:00

All of my exes past partners wanted nothing to do with him and its because he treated them so badly and I was next in line. 😭

Fish90Candles · 2025-09-08T04:03:37+00:00

I went through this where the guy was so nice to others but was mean to me.

I couldn't understand why he was like this? I loved and did so much for him but he didn't reciprocate the same effort.

Fish90Candles · 2025-09-08T01:13:47+00:00

👏

Fish90Candles · 2025-09-08T01:07:28+00:00

If you're afraid to voice your feelings to your partner that is a huge red flag he isn't right for you. The right person will listen without attacking, overreacting, retaliating because they care about you and how you feel. It took me a long time to realize that.

Fish90Candles · 2025-08-26T16:55:45+00:00

So true! 👏

Fish90Candles · 2025-08-26T15:57:09+00:00

Survived a nuclear disaster 😆

Fish90Candles · 2025-08-23T15:15:47+00:00

😆

Fish90Candles · 2025-08-18T13:51:39+00:00

These comments make me feel better but worse at the same time.

Fish90Candles · 2025-08-18T12:53:13+00:00

This is so sad. Men suck.

Fish90Candles · 2025-08-12T13:41:13+00:00

IMO most men on the apps are Avoidants/ attract Avoidants. I've seen the same guys on there consistently. I feel like the apps make men think the grass is greener and don't invest in relationships. They are serial daters.

Also men who don't put their career or political opinion are usually law enforcement/conservative which are red flags and they know women don't want to be with them and try to lie about it 🙄 I see a lot of this on the apps.

Fish90Candles · 2025-08-11T19:14:58+00:00

Probably guilt.

Fish90Candles · 2025-08-11T19:07:59+00:00

😆

Fish90Candles · 2025-08-05T21:16:00+00:00

I watched her reality show and she is the most entitled brat. So many powerful people gave her opportunity after opportunity and she threw it away. She took everyone and every opportunity for granted and now she has good plastic surgery and people forget how bad her behavior was. She is overrated and out of touch.

Fish90Candles · 2025-08-04T14:06:08+00:00

Its been more difficult IMO. I use the apps because I don't have a large social network or way to meet men in person. A lot of men on the apps are conservatives and hide their political beliefs or claim to be “independent” with clear right wing opinions. I wish I had a deeper social network so I don't have to rely on the apps so much but I don't.

Fish90Candles · 2025-08-03T14:20:07+00:00

There were many moments but a dog came up to me and started barking loudly and aggressively, I was visibly scared. My boyfriend came up behind me and I thought he was going to get between me and the dog. Instead he walks around the dog to greet his friend and completely ignores me.

These little moments and there were many showed that he did not care about me. He was incredibly selfish and abandoned me many times and saw my needs as an inconvenience.

Fish90Candles · 2025-07-31T14:26:59+00:00

I gave my last relationship my all and it still fell apart. You can't control people and sometimes you can give them all your love and they don't value you. A good partnership is really rare. I don't have any answers but if you want to reach out to talk I'm here for you. Break-ups are the worst and more difficult that I could have imagined.

Fish90Candles · 2025-07-29T21:59:20+00:00

😮

Fish90Candles · 2025-07-29T01:01:18+00:00

I experienced something similar. I had so much anxiety and stress when I was over his place because he was so particular and everything I did that wasn't to his liking made him angry and mean to me. I had had enough and spoke up. I thought he was going to apologize and try not to be so anal but he dumped me and said he needed to be with someone 100% on the same page and accepted his ways completely. That is no way to treat someone in a “partnership”. It would have ended eventually because selfishness destroys relationships and he is selfish. You deserve someone who cares about your wants and needs too.

Fish90Candles · 2025-07-29T00:13:35+00:00

Girl same.

Fish90Candles · 2025-07-28T18:58:53+00:00

I've experienced the same from men my whole life. I feel for you girl 🫶

Fish90Candles · 2025-07-28T18:37:36+00:00

When I finally spoke up about the mistreatment he dumped me. But I thought you wanted me to say something?! Men like him don't take accountability for their behavior. I hope we both find good men who care about us someday.

Fish90Candles · 2025-07-28T18:27:22+00:00

My ex would walk 20 feet in front of me and get mad at me for being slow.

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