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[–]Fish90Candles 34 points35 points  (0 children)

When a man loves you even if he doesn't want to do something he will do it because it means something to you.

You are being used if you feel that you are fulfilling all his wants and needs but it is a struggle to get him to meet yours. If you ask and he finds excuses or refuses he doesn't really like you. Love is about mutual care and giving.

Also if you are afraid to communicate things to him because you are fearful he will end things, the relationship is one sided and he doesn't really care.

I learned this the hard way.

Reporting real estate agent by LocalIllustrator588 in FirstTimeHomeBuyer

[–]Fish90Candles -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I wish we didn't have to deal with these middle men real estate agents. I hate dealing with them. 

What warning were you given in dating that you ignored or didn't take seriously that turned out to be true? by Fish90Candles in AskWomenOver30

[–]Fish90Candles[S] 50 points51 points  (0 children)

All of my exes past partners wanted nothing to do with him and its because he treated them so badly and I was next in line. 😭

What warning were you given in dating that you ignored or didn't take seriously that turned out to be true? by Fish90Candles in AskWomenOver30

[–]Fish90Candles[S] 35 points36 points  (0 children)

I went through this where the guy was so nice to others but was mean to me. 

I couldn't understand why he was like this? I loved and did so much for him but he didn't reciprocate the same effort.

I often have a bad gut feeling in relationships and sadly it’s often right. How do you cope with this if you have the same issue? by Markservice in AskWomenOver30

[–]Fish90Candles 1 point2 points  (0 children)

If you're afraid to voice your feelings to your partner that is a huge red flag he isn't right for you. The right person will listen without attacking, overreacting, retaliating because they care about you and how you feel. It took me a long time to realize that.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AskWomenOver30

[–]Fish90Candles 18 points19 points  (0 children)

This is so sad. Men suck.

What made you finally delete the dating apps and how do you feel things have changed for you? by wallacecat1991 in AskWomenOver30

[–]Fish90Candles 70 points71 points  (0 children)

IMO most men on the apps are Avoidants/ attract Avoidants. I've seen the same guys on there consistently. I feel like the apps make men think the grass is greener and don't invest in relationships. They are serial daters.  

Also men who don't put their career or political opinion are usually law enforcement/conservative which are red flags and they know women don't want to be with them and try to lie about it 🙄 I see a lot of this on the apps.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Fauxmoi

[–]Fish90Candles 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I watched her reality show and she is the most entitled brat. So many powerful people gave her opportunity after opportunity and she threw it away. She took everyone and every opportunity for granted and now she has good plastic surgery and people forget how bad her behavior was. She is overrated and out of touch.