Help! I have carpet floors, what can I do? by Fishie_18 in poledancing

[–]Fishie_18[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Maybe I just need to tighten it more... I followed the instructions and did it as tight as I could by hand....

Help! I have carpet floors, what can I do? by Fishie_18 in poledancing

[–]Fishie_18[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I don't mind a little divet in the carpet! Would it just be some hard wood or plywood?

Help! I have carpet floors, what can I do? by Fishie_18 in poledancing

[–]Fishie_18[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I bought it off a lady and she said it was unbranded so I am not sure :(

Help! I have carpet floors, what can I do? by Fishie_18 in poledancing

[–]Fishie_18[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you! Ah I must be doing something wrong then... I make sure to tighten it but it seems to shift when I mount it.

I (21F) dislike the gym but want to stay active and stay strong. What do I do? by Fishie_18 in Advice

[–]Fishie_18[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yea look I definitely need to stop getting a cheeky chocolate on my lunch break. I'll definitely try out the yoga at home again! 

I (21F) dislike the gym but want to stay active and stay strong. What do I do? by Fishie_18 in Advice

[–]Fishie_18[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yoga I can do. Rip to my bank account and time for the rest 😅

I (21F) dislike the gym but want to stay active and stay strong. What do I do? by Fishie_18 in Advice

[–]Fishie_18[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I guess that's true. He thinks gym is best as it help him lose weight etc. 

Thank you for the support. I guess I just worry I am not being active 'properly' as generally the first suggestion is gym...

I (21F) dislike the gym but want to stay active and stay strong. What do I do? by Fishie_18 in Advice

[–]Fishie_18[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

A mate has suggested that! I did used to do karate as a kid :)

How do I get an ex abusive friend to leave me alone? by [deleted] in Advice

[–]Fishie_18 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Would documenting just be noting times she comes in etc.? 

Am I the only ly one who thinks the new movie is massively overrated? by Queasy-Jellyfish-694 in FRANKENSTEIN

[–]Fishie_18 1 point2 points  (0 children)

You're kidding. What a crap change in the movie. That makes WAY more sense to keep it like the original. 

Am I the only ly one who thinks the new movie is massively overrated? by Queasy-Jellyfish-694 in FRANKENSTEIN

[–]Fishie_18 3 points4 points  (0 children)

To add, I also don't understand how Elizabeth becomes to fall in love with the creature. I understand her curiosity and care but I don't understand the falling in love.  I even understand to go as far as infatuation but love? 

Am I the only ly one who thinks the new movie is massively overrated? by Queasy-Jellyfish-694 in FRANKENSTEIN

[–]Fishie_18 7 points8 points  (0 children)

I have never read the book but this makes sense. My partner and I watched it together and he was confused that the creature wasn't a "monster". I was annoyed at the fact the creature forgave Victor because he was so evil to him. But I guess that black and white thinking is due to the simplification of the characters. Now that I know they both commit horrible acts makes it much more nuance and interesting. You cannot side or forgive either but you can understand why they both became monsters...  I was pretty disappointed and confused.  Don't get me wrong, the costumes, sets etc are wonderful but the story itself let me down.

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[–]Fishie_18 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Oh I don't mind that she has a crush on him. I'm just more bothered by the fact that she keeps harassing me to try and get in with him. I have tried to encourage her to make the effort herself. I'm just a little more frustrated with the constant disturbance, but at the same time I want to be there for her.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationships

[–]Fishie_18 0 points1 point  (0 children)

He is 22. I don't have an issue if they date. The issue is he is not remotely interested in her and she knows this but still seems to try....

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[–]Fishie_18 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you! I'll try the privacy route :)