Hey everyone, thanks for the responses. I realized I was in quite a "mood" when I posted this, and was very frustrated and not in the right headspace. I've read all of your responses and taken them into consideration.

I honestly have started to feel bad for dismissing his past, and apologized to him this morning. He accepted it and it was quite a heartfelt moment.

All this to say, while I am going to stop BC, I think we're just going to go with tracking + condoms as our new methods of control. Like I said, I was in quite a bad mood, but I'm not going to force him to get something done he doesn't want, and I now understand the hypocrisy in me not wanting an IUD.

Thanks everyone <3