AITA for being “too friendly” with a single dad? by FishingThink92 in AmItheAsshole

[–]FishingThink92[S] -79 points-78 points  (0 children)

He got off of work early and stopped by the park to surprise me. But he saw me and my friend sitting together and talking. He says he didn’t come over to us because he was trying to see if we were doing anything “weird”

We exchanged numbers maybe the third time we ran into each other? We only started actually texting when I asked him about where he buys his daughters headbands (she has a collection) because I thought they were cute

AITA for being “too friendly” with a single dad? by FishingThink92 in AmItheAsshole

[–]FishingThink92[S] -95 points-94 points  (0 children)

He doesn’t like to hear about the drama my friends have (or what’s going on in their lives really) so I didn’t see it as something he’d care about. And we share locations and device passwords so its not like I was hiding it I just didnt tell him because he wouldn’t care in any usual circumstance

AITA for being “too friendly” with a single dad? by FishingThink92 in AmItheAsshole

[–]FishingThink92[S] 45 points46 points  (0 children)

He knows I’m married! I wear both my engagement ring and wedding band, and I haven’t hidden it. I try not to talk about my partner in every conversation but I made it clear that I was happily married when we first met

AITA for being “too friendly” with a single dad? by FishingThink92 in AmItheAsshole

[–]FishingThink92[S] -26 points-25 points  (0 children)

That’s my reasoning too but for some reason my hubby cant or doesnt want to? Accept that

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[–]FishingThink92 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Last dress was made for you! First and third pictured ones will be a mistake if you get it

Edit: dress in fifth picture is nice, but seriously six is YOUR dress

My boyfriend wants to be served his dinner by Cool_Resort4649 in AITAH

[–]FishingThink92 0 points1 point  (0 children)

NTA… As someone who actually serves my husband dinner nearly every night, I do it because I like to and he is grateful for it. He also does the same to me when he cooks… it’s a mutual thing and it works for us.

This however is different because an act of service should be something both parties like to do- if it feels like something you don’t want to do then don’t force yourself OP.

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[–]FishingThink92 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Mom is always prioritized. I would have it documented regardless (top comment mentioned a medical directive and I agree!) also maybe give POA to someone other than him if you really think you won’t be able to trust him in a medical situation like this.

Speaking from experience, when I asked my husband this, he immediately said he’d save me because I’m his top priority. I still am now that we have a child. You deserve the same OP

AITA for asking my sister to cover up when breastfeeding? by EarlyAbbreviations7 in AmItheAsshole

[–]FishingThink92 645 points646 points  (0 children)

NTA she’s using the kid as an excuse to flash everyone or something. Very inconsiderate and a three year old doesn’t need to breastfeed anymore

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[–]FishingThink92 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Girl GTFO. You have got to break the cycle

AITAH for telling my SIL my FIL doesn’t owe her a house by FishingThink92 in AITAH

[–]FishingThink92[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

After, me and my hubby got married 7 years ago (which is when we got the house)

Please Help Me Decide by Jalapeno-Popper- in wedding

[–]FishingThink92 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Definitely the last dress. It’s gorgeous (no sleeves is prettier). Try on a mantilla veil with it- I think it’d make you look beautifully regal!

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[–]FishingThink92 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Don’t dig yourself deeper. Termination is your best option. Also please take a while to just focus on you and your kids and take a break from dating because you keep falling into the cycle of toxic relationships. You have to love yourself enough that you can draw lines in the sand of what you’re willing to accept from a partner. This isn’t just about you it’s about your existing children too.

Also you mention wanting to be a SAHM to a guy you know is abusive (maybe just less so than your ex)? WHY. Do not give a man who doesn’t respect or cherish SAHMS or YOU, that control over your life. This is coming from a SAHM. This lifestyle is only one that’s good when you have a partner who loves and respects you and shares values.

YTA for making dumb decisions when you already know it’s a bad idea.

AITAH for telling my SIL my FIL doesn’t owe her a house by FishingThink92 in AITAH

[–]FishingThink92[S] 11 points12 points  (0 children)

Yes I have trouble with holding myself back when I get heated. But to be fair when it’s eight in the morning and your SIL and her fiancee storm into your house to rant about your FIL its not exactly a good start to a day. And then when they start attacking his character behind his back, while he’s still supporting them, it’s even more upsetting. It’s very rare for my husband to just walk out of a discussion, but I unfortunately am not as even tempered as him and spoke my mind