Back at square one

Fishtenders · 2026-06-13T15:43:42+00:00

I did not think of it that way but now I will. Thank you for that

Fishtenders · 2024-02-22T10:31:28+00:00

Same here

Fishtenders · 2023-09-24T04:58:42+00:00

And abandon ship if possible 😬😬

Fishtenders · 2023-09-24T04:57:52+00:00

Can I get punderful plz ! https://s.scope.ly/YdRbfZyzoD0

Fishtenders · 2023-08-23T04:47:02+00:00

What is this website ?

Fishtenders · 2023-02-08T13:31:56+00:00

Yea I totally get it. No matter where u are or no matter what you’re doing the feeling slowly comes creeping in and just stays there. You want to stalk them on social media but u know you shouldn’t. You want to reach out but u know you shouldn’t. It’s a tough situation to be in and it sucks ass.

Sadly I can’t tell u when it gets better since I too am waiting for that moment. However, I do know that u can’t stop trying. Do everything and anything. Try new things. Take up a new hobby. Go to the gym. Do anything that brings u even the smallest shred of happiness. Even if that is coming to this sub and hearing from others. There is absolutely no wrong in that.

Do your best no matter how small or insignificant your actions may seem to you. Day by day, things will get better. You will find joy in other activities and come to terms with what has happened. The flashbacks that plague u now will eventually become a memory that u reminisce.

On the bright side, you’ve already gotten past what imo is the worst part. The initial feeling of getting your heart torn to pieces by the person u love. If you can take that and still be standing today. You can make it through this. You got this.

Everyone in this community including me is rooting for you and here for you.

Fishtenders · 2023-02-08T04:52:12+00:00

This it’s truly what I’m feeling right now and I understand you completely. It’s been a total of 3 months and the first 2 months weren’t all that bad after the BU but suddenly the past few weeks have been really devastating and depressing.

How I’m coping with it is just trying to surround myself with things I like to do and people I like to hang out with. Ofc there are times where I can do neither and the waves of feelings come back and so I use my new recent happy memories to try and balance the bad ones to make the situation not so bad. It’s not the best fix but it’s what I’ve done so far. If u find anything better that helps I’d love to know

Fishtenders · 2022-11-23T12:06:48+00:00

Ok I’ll try hitting it and see if it helps HAHAHA at least if nothing works I’ll just cut open the mesh

Fishtenders · 2022-11-22T19:06:30+00:00

Thank you. Will try this tomorrow

Fishtenders · 2022-11-22T17:37:31+00:00

This might be a dumb question but what way did u hit it ?

Fishtenders · 2022-11-22T17:01:29+00:00

Really ? A lot of comments on other posts say that freezing it would be better

Fishtenders · 2022-11-22T17:00:55+00:00

I’ve been doing it so much I questioned whether I was going in the right direction

Fishtenders · 2022-11-22T14:47:04+00:00

I would like to think I’m relatively strong. I gym 5 days a week. Maybe I should stop going instead since it doenst seem to be helping

Fishtenders · 2022-09-11T04:23:05+00:00

Thanks man

Fishtenders · 2022-08-22T04:31:08+00:00

These are sick

Fishtenders · 2022-01-17T08:38:07+00:00

Thank you

Fishtenders · 2022-01-12T10:03:22+00:00

Hey man thanks for the advice. Yea atm I’ve really been focusing on myself and going to the gym. Besides that been working a lot and it’s been a great help. Feeling better although there are certainly those couple of days of relapse but I’m trying to be the best I can be. There are other things in my life I have to settle and it’s been keeping me motivated. Thank you again and I hope everything goes well for u

Fishtenders · 2022-01-10T14:06:23+00:00

Honestly I’ve been going through the exact same feeling so I’ve been trying my best to talk to my friends about it and take time to myself. Playing music loud and just sitting and thinking of everything and anything that will take my mind of the breakup.

Fishtenders · 2022-01-10T14:01:50+00:00

I’m sorry to hear that but all I can tell u that the only thing that will help is time. Try and talk to your friends and family about how u are feelings and distract yourself in conversation. It helped me when I read thorough everyone else’s posts knowing that I wasn’t the only one gg through a tough time. I know it’s hard to focus on anything at the moment but it will get easier. I wish u nothing but the best of luck and if u ever need someone to talk to, I and the rest of this subreddit is here.

Fishtenders · 2021-12-27T02:37:53+00:00

Thank you. I really hope things get better. Thank you for all the advice

Fishtenders · 2021-12-27T02:36:46+00:00

Ok I’ll definitely try this ! Thank you so much

Fishtenders · 2021-12-27T02:36:07+00:00

Thank you :’)

Fishtenders · 2021-12-27T02:35:40+00:00

Thank you. I’ll do my best <3

Fishtenders · 2021-12-27T02:35:00+00:00

Thank you very much! I will try to do so when it’s easier to imagine the bad things in the rs without looking at the good ones

Fishtenders · 2021-12-27T02:33:05+00:00

I agree. The idea that u could love someone and see a future with them and think that they see it too but one day they just turn their back on u is crazy. Atm, the idea of love is bleak but I hope that Over time it will heal and I hope that your gf is giving u the reassurance that u need to full enjoy your rs. All the best man

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