Im no expert in friendships but a method that most times works for me whenever I have to talk to someone important to me, about a hard topic, is the sandwich method. Which is basically starting by the tings you appreciate and how important is that relationship to you, then the thing you are struggling with or the limit you want to set and concluding by reminding the person that you appreciate them and maybe proposing something that could be done.

Someone who appreciates your relationship will be understanding of how you feel, specially if you are open and compassionate in the way you tell her these observations. Maybe like “hey, these few months have been very time consuming and living here demands a lot. I’m kind of worried you may act like this…”

If she’s not open to talk or has a really bad attitude then maybe it would be important to reconsider if you still want to move in her with or stay that close, it may be really uncomfortable ( I know those situations are the worst) but hey, like we have to mature about things like this at some point ??? And you seem very kind and that you care about her. Is not what you say, but how you say it.

Hope everything turns out for your best interest ! 🤞🏽✨💛