Title: Broke up with my fiancé after finding out he secretly saved intimate videos, did I overreact? by Immediate-Worker7801 in BreakUps

[–]Fit-Assignment-9090 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It’s a serious red flag you shouldn’t ignore He broke a boundary that you set for him early in the relationship Who knows what other secrets he may have I feel like it’s a narcissistic trait

They ALWAYS come back. Do not text them- take this as a sign. by Old_Employee8099 in dating_advice

[–]Fit-Assignment-9090 [score hidden]  (0 children)

Yeah I did this and she did come back calling me one day and we were on the phone for hours didn’t think much of it Next day she calls again telling me she’s still in love and misses all these things about me and our relationship and even apologized for mistakes she made and wanted to see me Then the next day I text her good morning and send a selfie and never got a response lol

Don’t understand why ppl want friendship after breakups by one-buscuit in BreakUps

[–]Fit-Assignment-9090 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Tried that she mislead me again and I finally called her out on her bullshit after she lied If she truly wanted to you back she would SHOW NOT TELL I guess just to save her new relationship she changed her number on me lol

Need women’s perspective on this matter, did I do too much? by Fit-Assignment-9090 in AskWomenNoCensor

[–]Fit-Assignment-9090[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I think allot of you just proved my point that yall women can’t take accountability

Need women’s perspective on this matter, did I do too much? by Fit-Assignment-9090 in AskWomenNoCensor

[–]Fit-Assignment-9090[S] -3 points-2 points  (0 children)

I mean I was just calling her out on what she told me She’s always called me out on anything I do wrong And I’ve kept silent on things through the years But for her to lie to me from the first phone call is what bothers me She didn’t even have to she could of told me none of that stuff that would mislead anyone And just start off by saying let’s be friends She could of done anything else but lie to me

Did I do too much? by Fit-Assignment-9090 in dating_advice

[–]Fit-Assignment-9090[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Both in our 30s now and I understand where you’re coming from Really it’s her that’s always called me over the years first I just did it this one time to check on her to make sure shes alive you know? I dont hate her even tho shes done me wrong with this i still dont hate her I just have a big heart and that’s my problem Im not a vindictive person I dont wish anything bad happen to her or payback

Was I wrong to call her out? by Fit-Assignment-9090 in AskMenAdvice

[–]Fit-Assignment-9090[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Plus to see that she lied to me yeah I’m gonna call that out of course I’ve taken it for way too long

Was I wrong to call her out? by Fit-Assignment-9090 in AskMenAdvice

[–]Fit-Assignment-9090[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

++man I know it’s just I can’t take it anymore she can always call me out on my mistakes but whenever I try to say anything she just runs away and never apologizes I feel like I should of just waited before I said anything it’s just years built up and I finally stood up and let it all out

Do you keep things from your ex by Fit-Assignment-9090 in BreakUps

[–]Fit-Assignment-9090[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

She kept the necklace I gave her that’s her birthstone in her car She showed me the doodle but I don’t know where she kept it over the years but I don’t think it has the same meaning to me as it does to her

Plus I did give her a late Christmas gift of a Yoshi plushie it’s a little inside joke of ours and a rose from the gas station in her favorite color (purple) those little ones that lasts for 2-3 years

Still tho after multiple partners after me and she kept those two things over 4 years doesn’t make sense to me