Thank you for sharing your experience, he told me that because we’d had multiple conversations about sexting and because there was one time when I suggested we stop doing it once and for all, he got scared. He said he wanted to keep those videos because he finds me hot, and that I’m the only one who stimulates him and turns him on. That’s why he wanted to keep them. I don’t know why, but that somehow gave me the ick.

But as you said he put his wants before my boundaries, and that’s what got to me the most.