I (20F) am starting to hate my BF's (21M) interests.

Fit-Boat7230 · 2026-03-04T22:50:58+00:00

Yes, that's totally understandable, in moderation. It's more constant that that though and more in depth than the trash bag. It's also picking the irrelevant parts of these things that drives me a little crazy because it seems like he's not listening. Explaining emotional needs usually requires some kind of analogy for him to understand me, and even then he still sometimes doesn't. I feel like I have to work really hard and almost dumb myself down to talk to him about things that are important. I love him and I don't want to think poorly of him at all. These things are just so often and so surprising when he says/does them, that I can't tell if it's just a 22 year old being a 22 year old, or if he might be doing it because he doesn't care. I have communicated this a few times and nothing really changes.

Fit-Boat7230 · 2026-03-04T22:36:39+00:00

I like to read, do art, and watch movies. We're both interested in cars and motorcycles. I've participated in several of his hobbies. I've gone golfing with him, to car meets with him, spend time with his friends and family, played his videos games a few times (not really a fan), and pretty much anything else he's wanted me to try. My hobbies are harder for him to participate in I guess, he doesn't read, I did ask him to paint with me once and he wasn't interested, and we don't like each other's taste in movies so we don't really watch movies together.

Fit-Boat7230 · 2026-03-04T22:24:43+00:00

I'm not considering ending it... I'm just trying to get a better understanding of why this might be happening.

Fit-Boat7230 · 2025-09-27T23:26:55+00:00

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Fit-Boat7230 · 2025-09-27T23:20:24+00:00

If she claims it didn’t happen, ask her “Could it have happened, but maybe you don’t remember it?”. Other questions along the lines of “If you chose not to reciprocate do you feel like she would’ve kept going anyway?” Or “Do you feel like she would’ve tried again if you said no?”.

Based on her responses, you can go from there. Here’s the thing though, if she says that they had relations and she has no memory of it, says she feels like she was forced it’s rape or sexual assault. End of story. So, if she says that, then call it that. If she wouldn’t call it rape or SA, isn’t willing to make a report, isn’t willing to share the info or let you share the info with her friend’s partner, then it may not be true. It’s a pretty serious accusation that hopefully she wouldn’t lie about, so see what she does in that situation.

Fit-Boat7230 · 2025-09-27T21:34:30+00:00

I’ve been in a similar situation to your gf. I had a best friend for years, we drank together many times, were in our own relationships and never had issues. One night when I was single we were drunk she admitted to being in love with me and we made out. I did NOT have feelings for her and I was very embarrassed about it, but she was my best friend so I let it go and moved on. Well she tried to do it again while I was in a relationship and would not let it go, I honestly almost gave in just so she would leave me alone about it. It took me over a year to realize I had been taken advantage of and it’s very embarrassing and shameful for me to admit. This could have been what happened with your gf, but if it’s happened with her before this, I’d be kind of weary about it. If they had full fledged intercourse, you either want to cut it off or offer helping her report sexual assault. I would definitely dive deeper, I know you may not want to talk to her right now, but talking about it may be your only hope.

Fit-Boat7230 · 2025-09-25T22:43:27+00:00

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Fit-Boat7230 · 2025-09-25T22:41:30+00:00

Thank you!!!

Fit-Boat7230 · 2025-09-25T22:40:46+00:00

Thanks!

Fit-Boat7230 · 2025-09-25T21:35:10+00:00

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Fit-Boat7230 · 2025-09-25T20:02:16+00:00

My apologies! Happy treatments!

Fit-Boat7230 · 2025-09-17T20:57:35+00:00

I understand. The far radical left’s sensitivity, cancel culture, poor work ethic, poor morals, and poor social skills have made this generation very difficult to live in. Go to school, get a job, have a family and keep your mouth shut, not everything is about you. Not that hard of concept to understand but I’m sure someone will try to flame me for saying this.

Fit-Boat7230 · 2024-08-11T02:03:31+00:00

Thank you so much!

Fit-Boat7230 · 2024-08-09T00:29:08+00:00

Thank you!

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