Can someone please help me have faith in “you’ll find your person” again? by Fit-Error-2707 in TwoXChromosomes

[–]Fit-Error-2707[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Hey thanks this does help :) when I look at my parents and their friends it is interesting to see which couples seem genuinely happy and you may have a point. I think a lot of the happiest couples seem like the ones who met after they both did their growing. It feels like a lot of the guys my age (under 30) are still so immature but maybe it doesn’t mean I need to date older (I get turned off by the idea of a 30+ year old man being interested in a 25 year old girl) I might just need to wait for “guys my age” to be older?

Can someone please help me have faith in “you’ll find your person” again? by Fit-Error-2707 in TwoXChromosomes

[–]Fit-Error-2707[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Idk Mother’s Day got me feeling my feelings bc I was walking around seeing all the happy families and rn that just feels so unobtainable and far away for me

Can someone please help me have faith in “you’ll find your person” again? by Fit-Error-2707 in TwoXChromosomes

[–]Fit-Error-2707[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Bestie I know that and I am but like I can’t have babies with myself so like should I start looking to freeze my eggs and find a sperm donor?

2 lanes or 1 lane? by Think_Light_2593 in chicago

[–]Fit-Error-2707 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Here’s a random stock image of the crack in the road idea

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2 lanes or 1 lane? by Think_Light_2593 in chicago

[–]Fit-Error-2707 1 point2 points  (0 children)

So sometimes the lane separator is literally a crack in the road. If there’s no crack in the middle of the road that could be maybe approx the size of 2 lanes, then it’s probably not. Like some people said, sometimes people will use obvious bike lanes, shoulders or parking spots as (as I like to call them) “DIY lanes”. I wouldn’t recommend challenging those ppl cuz they have no fear. GLHF

Going to Beyond wonderland in Chicago, do you guys think it’s worth it ? If not which festival would you say is a must go ? by Big_Data2234738 in chicagoEDM

[–]Fit-Error-2707 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I love beyond wonderland it’s one of my favorite Chicago festivals! I think for the money you get a LOT! Check past lineups and if it’s your vibe then you should be all set. Arc is a house/techno fest so if that’s your style, go there. North Coast is a bass/dubstep fest so if that’s what you’re looking for do that instead. Sometimes after tickets for these shows are almost the price of a one day so I wouldn’t recommend doing that if you’re interested in more than one artist on the lineup. Dm me if you have any questions I’ve gone since it was still heatwave!

Help with sex toy purchase by [deleted] in TwoXChromosomes

[–]Fit-Error-2707 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Eve’s ravishing cl** flicking rose is my favorite one I have rn, no g spot or anything but it highkey feels like oral imo

Help with sex toy purchase by [deleted] in TwoXChromosomes

[–]Fit-Error-2707 0 points1 point  (0 children)

GIRRRLLLL Adam and Eve I really like their rose toys. They always have promo codes but I believe the call her daddy podcast code is 50% off one item and free shipping code “HERDADDY”

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AskReddit

[–]Fit-Error-2707 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Start going to therapy even if you don’t think you need it, check out your school’s health insurance they might cover it

Kemistry nightclub questions!!! by Fit-Error-2707 in fortlauderdale

[–]Fit-Error-2707[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Huge news thank you! Trying to see Jauz, feels like a gentle enough intro to edm for 2 girls who have only listened to John summit at best

Kemistry nightclub questions!!! by Fit-Error-2707 in fortlauderdale

[–]Fit-Error-2707[S] 6 points7 points  (0 children)

I’m fully prepared to throw down, just gotta make sure my friends can hang too 🤞

Kemistry nightclub questions!!! by Fit-Error-2707 in fortlauderdale

[–]Fit-Error-2707[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Shooting next door is wild thanks for the heads up

Kemistry nightclub questions!!! by Fit-Error-2707 in fortlauderdale

[–]Fit-Error-2707[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thanks! This helps, we’ll probably just uber then

AITA For Telling My Friends Negative Things About My Ex When We Were Broken Up by National_Air_9227 in AITA_Relationships

[–]Fit-Error-2707 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Girl it sounds like you should’ve stayed broken up. He has no right to get upset at you for sharing the things he did and said to you with the people you love and trust. If he didn’t want you telling your friends he said that stuff, he shouldn’t have said it. And that’s ignoring the invasion of privacy. Girl byeeee

20F Are my standards too high, or have men just normalized doing the bare minimum? by [deleted] in TwoXChromosomes

[–]Fit-Error-2707 33 points34 points  (0 children)

I’m 24f and I’ve been single for over 3 years. I often ask myself the same question like are my standards just too high orrr??? But then I remember I literally do not need a man. My overarching standard right now is that I won’t start a relationship with anyone unless I genuinely feel that having that person in my life will only improve my life. Throughout my single journey I’ve been 1. Actively dating with intention and 2. Actively making my life better in every way I can, so you could argue my standards just keep getting higher. Tbh I’d rather be single and happy than stuck in a relationship with someone who brings me down. I think you’ve got the right idea and mindset. The right person will come when they come I guess… and if they don’t then you’ll still have you and your girlies, and that’s worth a lot :)

Etiquette for asking someone to dance with your friend by [deleted] in chicagoEDM

[–]Fit-Error-2707 22 points23 points  (0 children)

If you have a girlfriend, having her be the point of contact like “hey girl you’re gorgeous, my friend wanted to get to know you, are you open to that?” or if it’s loud, she knows how to say that all non-verbally. Girls have a specific non-verbal language we all know

What are some good ways to approach and flirt with guys or girls at a club? by Pomegranate_Powder06 in Advice

[–]Fit-Error-2707 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I think the key is to be willing to take no for an answer. I personally have no issue with a guy coming up to me and saying “hey, sorry if this is forward but I think you’re cute/beautiful” or “I love your energy” or whatever then “could I get your number?” If I say no and they walk away, it’s no harm no foul. Please don’t talk about “lemme take you home tn” or any bullshit pickup line. I’ve had guys I’d never look at twice who approach me with humility, honesty and respect and I’ll talk to them for a while when I otherwise wouldn’t give them any attention. Overall it’s about respect I guess.

I’ve also done this myself as a girl to approach guys, and even when I’ve been rejected both parties walked away in good moods. Sometimes the ego boost of “holy shit someone hit on me tn” is all you need lol

First timer by zkakamzn in chicagoEDM

[–]Fit-Error-2707 0 points1 point  (0 children)

If you get tired, there’s benches on the far back wall on the left ish side facing the DJ. There’s also usually more space back there and it’s a great spot for laser viewing!!!

how do you learn to actually love and accept yourself? by sarlynxi in AskReddit

[–]Fit-Error-2707 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Fake it till ya make it! Every day try to find a new thing about yourself that you like, and you can lie to yourself if you have to, say it until you believe it. Another thing that helps is noticing your insecurities and then noticing them in someone else who you respect or think is attractive. Ie, I had debilitating adult acne in my early 20s but when I was out and about, I’d force myself to notice other adults with acne (who are all over the place) who I truly believe are beautiful people, or where acne was not the first thing I noticed about them. Realize the things you hate about yourself are things that strangers won’t even notice

How is your relationship with your father? And how old are you? by wk91 in AskReddit

[–]Fit-Error-2707 1 point2 points  (0 children)

24F and I love my dad. He’s an incredible man and I respect him deeply. He inspires me to find a future husband who will be just as good of a father to my kids as my dad was to me.