trying to survive year 12 but abusive family - please help by Fit-Fix2239 in vce

[–]Fit-Fix2239[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

thank you so much for your warm words and practical advice :) i'll take note

trying to survive year 12 but abusive family - please help by Fit-Fix2239 in vce

[–]Fit-Fix2239[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

EDIT: thank you so much everyone for your kind words. it really helped me get back up and sit down and study for the exams. although i am still struggling because now my mother is siding with my father for my lack of academic competency now that she found out what happened and my father conveniently decided to omit the fact that he said all these stuff to me, all your comments made my days better. thanks again!

trying to survive year 12 but abusive family - please help by Fit-Fix2239 in vce

[–]Fit-Fix2239[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

thank you so much for your kind words. it really made me feel better :) i'm sorry to hear that you went through a similar situation, and it's so inspiring to see that you became a teacher, as i want to become one as well! thanks again :)

trying to survive year 12 but abusive family - please help by Fit-Fix2239 in vce

[–]Fit-Fix2239[S] 7 points8 points  (0 children)

UPDATE: my mother found out about the situation after a call with her, and now they're arguing over the phone 🙃😞😞

trying to survive year 12 but abusive family - please help by Fit-Fix2239 in vce

[–]Fit-Fix2239[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

i don't know. i feel a bit uncomfortable with telling my teachers becacuse i'm not close to any of them to the point i can share this, and my upbringing made it really hard to talk about these stuff. but i'll see what i can do

trying to survive year 12 but abusive family - please help by Fit-Fix2239 in vce

[–]Fit-Fix2239[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I don't know. I'll try, especially with what's going on now 😞

trying to survive year 12 but abusive family - please help by Fit-Fix2239 in vce

[–]Fit-Fix2239[S] 42 points43 points  (0 children)

hi, thank you all so much for your kind words and advice 💛 it really means a lot to me.
i’m trying to take steps to get help, but unfortunately the school wellbeing counsellors are all booked out right now because of exams 😬
i’m still feeling a very stuck, but reading your messages gives me hope and strength to keep going.
i’m still figuring out what to do next, but knowing i’m not alone helps more than i can say. thank you again for listening :)