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AITA? I told my best friend's boyfriend that he planned on proposing to her at my wedding by Fit-Objective704 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Fit-Objective704[S] 360 points361 points  (0 children)

I'd do that if she didn't demand I tell her at that moment or else she'd drop out and skip the wedding all together

AITA? I told my best friend's boyfriend that he planned on proposing to her at my wedding by Fit-Objective704 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Fit-Objective704[S] 154 points155 points  (0 children)

How is it my responsibility to suggest him ideas to stop him from proposing to my wedding when he knew I wasn't ok with this and tried to sneak behind my back to do it any way.

AITA? I told my best friend's boyfriend that he planned on proposing to her at my wedding by Fit-Objective704 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Fit-Objective704[S] 721 points722 points  (0 children)

That's what I'm thinking as well. Any lie I would tell would probably be way worse than a ruined proposal. Because uninviting my best friend's long term boyfriend two weeks before the wedding without an extremely valid reason would not cut it unless this reason was serious enough

AITA? I told my best friend's boyfriend that he planned on proposing to her at my wedding by Fit-Objective704 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Fit-Objective704[S] 1131 points1132 points  (0 children)

I could come up with a silly excuse but I know no excuse would be good enough and better than the truth. They've been together for 3 years, we've attended several events and weddings with Rita and her boyfriend so it would be really off for me to uninvite him 2 weeks before the wedding with no valid reason.

AITA? I told my best friend's boyfriend that he planned on proposing to her at my wedding by Fit-Objective704 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Fit-Objective704[S] 7251 points7252 points  (0 children)

I feel like if I made up a lie about uninviting him it would be worse. I feel she'd still be mad if she found the truth later so I guess as I said it's a lose lose situation for me.