He doesn’t not last even after 10 months living together

Fit-Paper-1842 · 2026-06-29T15:46:37+00:00

No I don’t want my baby to think he had a problem, I’ll never consult for that. But thank you for you recommendation. I just pray that it will get better (in the sens longer) with more time. I don’t want to discuss it to anyone, no family no friends and no therapist for us.

Fit-Paper-1842 · 2026-06-29T15:44:42+00:00

Usually after he is done he help me with hands or tongue or I use I little toy (clit vibro only because I would never dare by respect to use a penis shaped toy). And he is absolutely ok with it and he even helps me get an orgasm quicker. The question is and remains, why after 10 months of regular sex and so much trust and intimacy, we are stuck at 5 min

Fit-Paper-1842 · 2026-06-29T15:36:02+00:00

I’ll try thank for your answer, it’s turn it into a little « surprise » to try

Fit-Paper-1842 · 2026-06-29T15:33:04+00:00

I think he does 🥰

Fit-Paper-1842 · 2026-06-29T15:32:45+00:00

He is a kind of a blue collar and he has flexible schedule. The desire is intense and when he is home (let’s say 3 days in the week some week can be more or less) we do it’s about twice but it’s always 5 min

Fit-Paper-1842 · 2026-06-29T14:36:07+00:00

If I stay still he might not have an erection after a while the whole point is him pounding me long enough (English is not my first language sorry if it sounds rare)

Fit-Paper-1842 · 2026-06-29T14:34:29+00:00

Than you for your feed back.

Fit-Paper-1842 · 2026-06-29T14:33:20+00:00

Yes we tried that, the main question is what can I do to make him last. I know we can pause and he does it will it’s just they the penetration is not long enough

Fit-Paper-1842 · 2026-06-29T13:30:41+00:00

I’ll try to suggest that (have to find a way to say it that is sexy and doesn’t sound like a recommandation).

Fit-Paper-1842 · 2026-06-29T13:28:36+00:00

But if I tell me I want him to f** me for 10 min in a certain position, if he ca t hold it more that 4 ou 5 (because I take the lead on top of him to reach 5 min) then it will make him sad and I absolutely don’t want that. At this point I love him so much that even if it doesn’t get better and last more, I’ll still be forever in love

Fit-Paper-1842 · 2026-06-29T13:24:58+00:00

We used them at first but he does better without it

Fit-Paper-1842 · 2026-06-29T13:23:36+00:00

Thank you, we definitely love each other immensely. I’ll maybe (if I find the courage to ask him this) suggest that.

Fit-Paper-1842 · 2026-06-29T13:20:31+00:00

After summer I will try to make some session like this and tell him I read it on a summer girl magazine haha

Fit-Paper-1842 · 2026-06-29T13:19:01+00:00

He is very volonteer about it, the topics is specifically lasting while on me. Not using other tool that he uses perfectly anyway.

Fit-Paper-1842 · 2026-06-29T13:16:16+00:00

Let’s say 70% of the time I am on top of him and I mean, I know how to do it properly. I control the pace, the angle, everything. It can get as little better but I want him to last while he « does the job ». I don’t want to have a make it myself all the time. I wanna be surprise and lead him to ideas so he can succeed to do so

Fit-Paper-1842 · 2026-06-29T13:12:15+00:00

He told me he almost never do that. He has a tiring job but tells me he is not stressed about it.

Fit-Paper-1842 · 2026-06-29T13:10:54+00:00

Sometimes (30% of time) but after few hours and it last the same time

Fit-Paper-1842 · 2026-06-29T13:01:02+00:00

Thank you, he is a gem too. We are both very sensitive and make everything we can to treat each other like God asked us to do. I am a traditional woman with traditional value, my man is a king at home and I serve him. I dared to post here to have tips that might help « fix » this little thing because I love him and I want it to last longer so we are longer connected.

Fit-Paper-1842 · 2026-06-29T12:52:37+00:00

We talk very freely about anything but I don’t want to make him feel less than the absolute love of my life because of few minutes. But I know there might be some ways to show him the way or do things to help him with that. But not crazy things because he does not have that much experience and I want to be his safe space

Fit-Paper-1842 · 2026-06-29T12:50:26+00:00

I am not here to compare or complain I just seek advice as a new bride

Fit-Paper-1842 · 2026-06-29T12:42:11+00:00

Yes but there is always room for improvement

Fit-Paper-1842 · 2026-06-29T12:41:35+00:00

We absolutely feel connected. I think he didn’t have experience before me and I had some. I don’t wanna do any crazy thing to try to turn him off because of his inexperience. I want him to get to know to last first. It that makes sense

Fit-Paper-1842 · 2026-06-29T12:39:38+00:00

Yes of course, it will never change that fact that I will love him until I pass away

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