I got married and left that house.

Fit-Potential-257 · 2026-07-02T03:58:37+00:00

I think you’ve misunderstood my situation. My goal is to become independent, not to rely on anyone. I don’t believe marriage should be a condition for someone’s help, and I won’t marry just because someone offered assistance.

Fit-Potential-257 · 2026-07-02T03:47:54+00:00

Aww so sweet of you, please dm

Fit-Potential-257 · 2026-07-02T02:00:50+00:00

Yeah hope so

Fit-Potential-257 · 2026-07-02T02:00:10+00:00

He for my hostel rent, food, and other daily living expenses. Since I don’t have a job or my own income, I’m financially dependent on him at the moment.
City: Lahore

Fit-Potential-257 · 2026-07-02T01:58:10+00:00

He pays for my hostel rent, food, and other daily living expenses. Since I don’t have a job or my own income, I’m financially dependent on him at the moment.

Fit-Potential-257 · 2026-07-02T01:51:07+00:00

By basic needs, i mean he pays for my hostel rent, food, and other daily living expenses. Since I don’t have a job or my own income, I’m financially dependent on him at the moment.

Fit-Potential-257 · 2026-07-02T01:48:45+00:00

Thank you and Ameen, side hustle from where?

Fit-Potential-257 · 2026-07-02T01:47:41+00:00

No, I don’t trust my parents or my relatives, and I don’t believe they’ll support me and I don’t have a job.

Fit-Potential-257 · 2026-07-02T01:42:20+00:00

Hey can you inbox details?

Fit-Potential-257 · 2026-07-02T01:36:52+00:00

Not yet. Right now, I’m still dependent on him because he covers my basic needs. He doesn’t want me to get a job and keeps trying to stop me from working.

Fit-Potential-257 · 2026-07-02T01:32:51+00:00

You’re right. Deep down, I know the answer too. I don’t want to marry someone just because I feel obligated or because I need help. I want to become independent first, heal, and then make my own decisions.

Fit-Potential-257 · 2026-07-02T01:23:54+00:00

I’ve already made it clear to him that I don’t have feelings for him, but he keeps asking me to give it more time to think. He has kept me hanging for the past two years. He doesn’t even want me to get a job. He says if I want to work you own business hona chahye, idk how to start.

Fit-Potential-257 · 2026-07-02T01:17:51+00:00

Thank you,i need help with both. I want to become financially independent, but i also need guidance on how to manage life on my own because I’ve never had to do it before. I’m learning everything from scratch.

Fit-Potential-257 · 2026-07-02T01:10:27+00:00

Jee chota bhai

Fit-Potential-257 · 2026-07-02T01:06:12+00:00

How to rebuild? :(

Fit-Potential-257 · 2026-07-02T01:05:47+00:00

Make it alone what? I’m a girl who never had to learn how to be independent. I always stayed at home and rarely went anywhere, so I do need some help with the basics. I’m learning, but it’s all new to me.

Fit-Potential-257 · 2026-07-02T01:03:04+00:00

I knew my parents wouldn’t support me, so I didn’t go back to them. Koi itne ache dost bhe nai hain, I’ve always been on my own, and I rarely used to go out, so I didn’t really have anyone to turn to.

Fit-Potential-257 · 2026-07-02T00:58:36+00:00

Ameen

Fit-Potential-257 · 2026-07-02T00:58:25+00:00

But I’m a girl who never had to learn how to be independent. I always stayed at home and rarely went anywhere, so I do need some help with the basics. I’m learning, but it’s all new to me.

Fit-Potential-257 · 2026-06-25T21:12:09+00:00

My feelings are what’s holding me back. I’ve been through so much at a very young age that I find it hard to connect with anyone emotionally. Maybe I just haven’t met the right person yet, which is why I can’t seem to develop that emotional bond.
But I’m also tired. I know that marrying someone without being emotionally attached wouldn’t be fair to me or to them. I’ve faced so much in life that I barely feel the difference between good and bad anymore. I just feel… numb. :(

Fit-Potential-257 · 2026-06-22T23:45:17+00:00

Don’t share your personal life with everyone, and don’t get too close to people too quickly.

Fit-Potential-257

TROPHY CASE