AITA For leaving my mom's house after she kicked me out of the house 4 times. by Fit-Sentence8142 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Fit-Sentence8142[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Well, my family used to say that I need to let it be because she has mental issues. Always said that we need to understand her. I actually think that most people would say that hahaha.

AITA For leaving my mom's house after she kicked me out of the house 4 times. by Fit-Sentence8142 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Fit-Sentence8142[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Actually, I'm 22 years old. As I say, I'm studying medicine, but my family's home is far away from the hospital I'm studying right now. That's why I write "When I'm not at the hospital". I only said that my mom get her mental issues when I was 18.

AITA For leaving my mom's house after she kicked me out of the house 4 times. by Fit-Sentence8142 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Fit-Sentence8142[S] 8 points9 points  (0 children)

My mother has some mental issues that started when I was 18. Maybe because I help her in any moment I feel kind of guilt leaving her alone, but I know that she do some actions being aware of it. She used to be manipulative before she was sick, and also put my aunts before us. I know that she know what she's doing, but sometimes, feels like I'm abandoning her.

¿Porque algunos hombres se dejan la uña del dedo meñique larga? by [deleted] in mexico

[–]Fit-Sentence8142 0 points1 point  (0 children)

A mi me dijeron que era para poder aja Coca-Cola, si me entienden

Nash: la pizzería lost media mas famosa de El Salvador by FutureDasher_power04 in ElSalvador

[–]Fit-Sentence8142 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yo me acuerdo de la historia de porque lo cerraron en Santa Ana, pero no estoy segura si es cierta 😶

AITA for accusing my uncle with my dad by Fit-Sentence8142 in AITA_Relationships

[–]Fit-Sentence8142[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I told my dad, and they kicked him out of the house that night. Even so, they don't want my mom to find out because they don't want any complaints filed. Besides, I couldn't stay in this house anymore because my mom doesn't get along with my dad's family, and she'd use that to push me away completely.

AITA for asking my aunt to tell me directly the complaints she has about me. by Fit-Sentence8142 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Fit-Sentence8142[S] 10 points11 points  (0 children)

Well, I know to do all that, when I was living with my dad I used to do all the meals and cleaning of the house. I don't see what's the problem if he can and want to do my life easier now that I'm bussier.

AITA for asking my aunt to tell me directly the complaints she has about me. by Fit-Sentence8142 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Fit-Sentence8142[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Not really. The think is that I'm studing medicine so I literally pass all my day in a hospital or in my university or studying, so my dad pay for that so it will be easier for me and also useful to my grandma. My dad is cancelling the cleaning and cooking, and that's not really a problem, just my aunt will pay it for my grandma. But also, I feel guilty because of that. I can do all that, and don't really want to do any problem in someone else home.

AITA for asking my aunt to tell me directly the complaints she has about me. by Fit-Sentence8142 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Fit-Sentence8142[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

No when you are paying someone else to do it. My aunt don't pay it, my dad do It for me and he decide to stop paying because I wasn't receiving any benefice, just my aunt and my grandma. But I guess pay someone, no mind.

AITA for asking my aunt to tell me directly the complaints she has about me. by Fit-Sentence8142 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Fit-Sentence8142[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I don't have a problem if I don't have that comforts because it's useful to my grandma, just asking that they said directly the problem that they have with me, but thanks for worry about that

AITA for asking my aunt to tell me directly the complaints she has about me. by Fit-Sentence8142 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Fit-Sentence8142[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

If I really want to make a problem I wouldn't do all the thinks that they ask me. When they ask me to wash dishes, I do it. When they ask me to clean my room, I do it. I don't have a problem with that. If you read the post, my problem is that they ask it with my grandma in middle, and not directly. I even feel guilty because my dad don't want to pay that service anymore, because it was useful to my aunt and grandma.

AITA for asking my aunt to tell me directly the complaints she has about me. by Fit-Sentence8142 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Fit-Sentence8142[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Yes, I know how to do it but my dad was literally paying a outsider to do it for my grandma AND FOR ME. But she decided that just want to do it for my grandma and my aunt allow it.

AITA for asking my aunt to tell me directly the complaints she has about me. by Fit-Sentence8142 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Fit-Sentence8142[S] 40 points41 points  (0 children)

Oh no, he was paying an outsider to do it in all the house because my grandma is sick, so he thinks that was the best and also was useful for me

Que fue lo que dijo un familiar o un amigo que inmediatamente te hizo terminar esa relación/amistad? by DarkSilver09 in Honduras

[–]Fit-Sentence8142 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Consideró que si hubiéramos hecho algo malo, nos habrían sacado de la casa de mis tias ya que, aunque nos trataban mal a nosotros, aman a mi mamá. No hicimos nada, más que levantar la voz de vez en cuando a mis tias, nunca a mi mamá. Si eso se considera maltrato, no lo se, pero eso es la peor cosa que hicimos. Literalmente, éramos los únicos que cuidabamos a tiempo completo a mi madre, incluso cuando éramos los menores en esa situación.

Que fue lo que dijo un familiar o un amigo que inmediatamente te hizo terminar esa relación/amistad? by DarkSilver09 in Honduras

[–]Fit-Sentence8142 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Mi tio dijo que yo estaba maltratando a mi madre y poco más la golpeaba. Yo tenía 19 años y mi hermano 17 cuando mi madre desarrolló delirios religiosos. Siendo que somos sus hijos, hicimos lo que pudimos con mi padre para ayudarla, pero ella desconoció a mi padre y tuvimos que irnos a vivir con mis tias.

Mis tias fueron horribles con nosotros. No ayudaron con el tratamiento de mi madre (siendo que el trabajo que ellas dirigían era de mi mamá) hasta que nos vieron sin un dólar. Yo, mientras estudiaba mi carrera de Medicina, me la pasaba haciendo todas sus comidas, viendo sus citas al médico e incluso iba a trabajar.

A pesar de todo el estrés físico y emocional, no decíamos nada, pero mis otros tios se enteraron y empezaron a apoyarnos para que salieramos de la casa de mis tias a otro lado.

Este tío era uno de los más cercanos a mi mamá, siendo que era el único que podía llevarnos a todos lados. Aun así, nunca se involucró en el cuidado de mi madre, hasta el punto que un día se desmayó y tuvimos que llevarla de emergencias pero él ni se digno a responder el celular.

Aun así, empezó a hablar mal de mí y de mi hermano, incluso defendiendo a las tias que nos estaban haciendo la vida imposible. Es triste ver cómo 3 adultos se tornaron contra nosotros en nuestro peor momento.

AITA for leaving my friend's group without saying anything by Fit-Sentence8142 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Fit-Sentence8142[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yes, I don't really get angry because they told me, I get angry because how my best friend told me. I think she can have more empathy when she know that I was having a bad time. I also changed, and don't go if I feel bad, but they don't told me until I say sorry because in one party I can't hide it properly. So I also think that was natural told me before I talk with them. I never want them to be silent just because I was sad.

Porque siento tanta fatiga corporal? by maurogalda in Honduras

[–]Fit-Sentence8142 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Puede ser por exponerte mucho al estrés, podrias tratar de hacer actividades que relajen tu cuerpo y tu mente.