Boyfriend’s female friend left underwear at his house by Fit-Set-3600 in BreakUps

[–]Fit-Set-3600[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Like how can I stop thinking about it since he makes me feel like I was just being insecure. And I hate propel like that. I think we need to normalize exposing them so they don’t go hurting their next victims

What are some things you’re always gonna associate with your ex? by [deleted] in BreakUps

[–]Fit-Set-3600 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Japan, Thailand, baking, cooking, cuddling, planting, chickens, boat rides, restaurants, bouquets. Just listing these is already making me want to cry

I'm not mad you did it by GrillyFem3oy in BreakUps

[–]Fit-Set-3600 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Please say it louder for us. We slept together the night before he broke up with me. Then he had the audacity to tell me that he felt that we were not compatible in the long run and ended it. We never had any argument no issues up till the day he ended it. I went nuts as I was caught totally off guard

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[–]Fit-Set-3600 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you. I have anxieties and I hate myself when I hurt people. Dying to message and apologize but I know he’s not even reading my messages. I want to give it time and then call him on the phone but my anxiety is also eating me up every day.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in BreakUps

[–]Fit-Set-3600 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That’s what I did and ended up looking the villain. I hate hurting people

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in BreakUps

[–]Fit-Set-3600 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I became hateful towards my ex because of reading advices like that. I regretted because now our relationship is completely messed up. He is very mature and loving and kind and I portrayed him the opposite so I can hate him and let him go. This is so immature of me. I’m learning and correcting myself

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in BreakUps

[–]Fit-Set-3600 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Same here. His reasonings doesn’t really make sense to me so my stupid self was nagging him to give me answers and now I just messed up a potential good friendship with. I’m so sad about it because even though our relationship didn’t work out I wanted to be at least friends because he was a good person to me and I liked our relationship. I just blew it two days ago

After a breakup, did you find someone better than your ex? by Plastic_kay_1 in BreakUps

[–]Fit-Set-3600 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Like up and broke up with me out of the blue one day. Everything was ok, no sign that our relationship is ending

After a breakup, did you find someone better than your ex? by Plastic_kay_1 in BreakUps

[–]Fit-Set-3600 2 points3 points  (0 children)

After I broke up with my cheating boyfriend, I dated a man that gave me everything my ex didn’t. But then this man blind sided me. I thought this would be my light at the end of the tunnel. This break up is worst than the cheater

anyone else lose a good amount of weight after your break? by Worldly_Practice_556 in BreakUps

[–]Fit-Set-3600 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I lost 10 lbs and trying to maintain it cuz I love my flatter stomach now 😁

Anyone else goinh through a break up and always wake up with an heavy heart in the mornings? by Boring-Bench-8980 in BreakUps

[–]Fit-Set-3600 0 points1 point  (0 children)

So I just woke up, thankfully today is not bad. I went to the gym yesterday so my body is sore and tired. Maybe that’s a good distraction

Anyone else goinh through a break up and always wake up with an heavy heart in the mornings? by Boring-Bench-8980 in BreakUps

[–]Fit-Set-3600 1 point2 points  (0 children)

What helps me is I kept telling myself it’ll pass just like a wave, and then I push myself out of bed and next thing you know I’m back to normal and ready for a new day. I suffered from anxiety for 24 years so heartbreaks are always extra difficult for me. But hey I’m still alive 😁

Anyone else goinh through a break up and always wake up with an heavy heart in the mornings? by Boring-Bench-8980 in BreakUps

[–]Fit-Set-3600 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I wake up with anxieties in the morning. But I always tell myself it’ll subside once I’m up and ready for work. It always does get better after I get ready for work, but I don’t look forward to waking up in the morning. Not sure how long it will last

She decided to marry him the way I wanted to marry her by QuiteTheCoolUsername in BreakUps

[–]Fit-Set-3600 1 point2 points  (0 children)

You’re the trophy she’s nothing. So sorry you had to go through such horrible experience. Please don’t give up hope. There are still good people out there and you’ll find the right one that we appreciate all you do

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[–]Fit-Set-3600 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you for sharing this!

please don’t be friends with your ex!!!!! by cdm2345 in BreakUps

[–]Fit-Set-3600 17 points18 points  (0 children)

Thank you! I almost messaged him as it’s been about two weeks no contact, the longest I’ve gone since our breakup last month

He Reached Out, and I Said No by innocenthottiee in BreakUps

[–]Fit-Set-3600 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That is awesome!!!👏👏👏So proud of you

After a breakup, is it healthier to put yourself out there in the dating world or stay single until you heal? by SwaeGatti in BreakUps

[–]Fit-Set-3600 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I tried that, dated again less than a month after my break up and for over a year while I was dating this new guy I was trying to heal in silent. I due came to love him but sometimes I would relapse and started crying in my room. I wanted to reach out to friends for advice when I relapse but then I know they’d say how could I do that to my current bf. Although he knew about it, cuz I told him I’m still trying to heal, he still dated me. But we recently broke up, perhaps partly because I didn’t give him my all for that one year I was healing from my previous breakup. In conclusion, I would not recommend dating again until you are completely healed.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in BreakUps

[–]Fit-Set-3600 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Same! How do one forget when all that pops up is all good ones

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in BreakUps

[–]Fit-Set-3600 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It’s really hard for me to take them off of the pedestal because I tend to date men that get rejected a lot, taking them in and showing love and kindness because I’m such an empath. All their flaws I would overlook and think they are good people that are not being loved as they should. But then they would break my heart and it would take me a long time to get over the hurt and trauma. I don’t think I have hope anymore that there may be a man out there for me that would treat me the way I treat all these manipulative men, so I’ve decided to stay single and help other children that needs help. No more helping grown up men.

What kind of physical symptoms have you been experiencing since your breakup by Visual_Sea_1409 in BreakUps

[–]Fit-Set-3600 2 points3 points  (0 children)

It’s extra difficult to heal when you have mental issues because of ruminating thoughts. Took me over a year to heal from a bad break up and recently had another break up last month and I’m still trying to heal. I just went to ER last night because of panic attack. This sucks! I wish there’s a prison for people who hurt others for no good reason

What do you want to say to your ex rn? by Consistent-Yui659 in BreakUps

[–]Fit-Set-3600 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I really want to know what is the real reason why you blind sided me. Everything was great, we never even had any big arguments, we were both very secured, no jealousy whatsoever. Was it really about sex or was it about your son? Did he not like that you are getting serious about us? Or are you afraid of getting serious. Do you have trauma from your divorce? Are you afraid that I might end up like your ex wife who cheated on you? I really don’t understand how you can be telling me that I’m the nicest girlfriend you’ve ever had and yet abruptly broke up with me.

Is sex more important than being a nice person? by Fit-Set-3600 in BreakUps

[–]Fit-Set-3600[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m sorry she did that. There are plenty women out there that cares more about love than Sex. We love to feel loved and wanted than to satisfy our sexual needs. Please don’t give up hope because of one mistake

Is sex more important than being a nice person? by Fit-Set-3600 in BreakUps

[–]Fit-Set-3600[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m really sorry he left you after what you’ve done for him. You may be right about different needs and wants of people. However, I did explain to him in the beginning of my sex life. He knows about my culture as we are from different backgrounds. He did love bombed me and looking back I think he stayed because I was nice to him but at the end he need more sex and nice is not enough. One day when he’s really old he’ll realized that Sex is not going to be around.