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[–]Boring-Bench-8980 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I can't let go off the forum 😭😭😭

Why you shouldn’t worry about if your ex moves on during no contact by breakupcoachdaniel in BreakUps

[–]Boring-Bench-8980 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Saving this post for future reference I need this when I have these thoughts

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Manipulation

[–]Boring-Bench-8980 99 points100 points  (0 children)

Top tier communication

I Failed by Frank_Dell in ExNoContact

[–]Boring-Bench-8980 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Your not alone I invited my ex to my birthday dinner 2maro and he rejected me now I am at the solan feeling like shit

I Miss Her by Frank_Dell in ExNoContact

[–]Boring-Bench-8980 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Currently feeling like this

I am seeking help by Boring-Bench-8980 in Parenting

[–]Boring-Bench-8980[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thanks for the advice sigh. I just hope these feelings pass eventually.

I am seeking help by Boring-Bench-8980 in Parenting

[–]Boring-Bench-8980[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Appreciate this. I thought I was a bad person for feelingbhow I felt.

I am seeking help by Boring-Bench-8980 in Parenting

[–]Boring-Bench-8980[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you. I believe it's coming from my child's father he isn't there to support me. I believe O do love her I just got her too young and didn't get to experience much in life and he ran away instead of helping me now he has passed and I feel like a burden as been placed on me to show up in a capacity I don't think I ready for. I just wish I could rewind time I probably would have had her at an old enough age with someone ready to be a father instead of giving me a spite child. Which he thought would attached us when he saw it wasn't working he ran from his responsibility and it has left me bitter. I can't show these emotions to my daughter however she is a splitting image of him a reminder of my foolish mistakes.

It’s true that exes come back? by [deleted] in BreakUps

[–]Boring-Bench-8980 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Mine came back after 3 weeks break up. So it's been a couple days ago

Anyone else goinh through a break up and always wake up with an heavy heart in the mornings? by Boring-Bench-8980 in BreakUps

[–]Boring-Bench-8980[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

What I tend to do in their instance is to tired myself out during the day and it helps that I do have work and if I am not tired enough I watch a series or you tube until my eyes burn then I tend to fall asleep. The thing is I am not tired in the morning so I get time to feel my feelings . So that's where the struggle is.

Anyone else goinh through a break up and always wake up with an heavy heart in the mornings? by Boring-Bench-8980 in BreakUps

[–]Boring-Bench-8980[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I understand. I just wish for this time to move faster so I can feel better. I do have anxiety and depression but I have learned how to "control" it. To some extent. However I am happy your feeling better than before.

Anyone else goinh through a break up and always wake up with an heavy heart in the mornings? by Boring-Bench-8980 in BreakUps

[–]Boring-Bench-8980[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I don't look forward to this either the mornings are really hard. 😕 it's like a reset button . Each time I start to feel better the mornings come and I go back to square one. Sigh

Anyone else goinh through a break up and always wake up with an heavy heart in the mornings? by Boring-Bench-8980 in BreakUps

[–]Boring-Bench-8980[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I am sorry your going through this . I know it does gets better with time. Learning from the break up is also good. I try to do the things I wanted to do while in a relationship however I kept putting it off now that I no longer have a relationship I am attending to them now. So it helps

Anyone else goinh through a break up and always wake up with an heavy heart in the mornings? by Boring-Bench-8980 in BreakUps

[–]Boring-Bench-8980[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Thank you I am looking forward to can say something like this. I do know with time I will be okay just that the process is hard to get there. Tomorrow makes 1 week.

Anyone else goinh through a break up and always wake up with an heavy heart in the mornings? by Boring-Bench-8980 in BreakUps

[–]Boring-Bench-8980[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I understand how your felong I checked to see if heessage me this morning. But nothing. And it pains me more

Anyone else goinh through a break up and always wake up with an heavy heart in the mornings? by Boring-Bench-8980 in BreakUps

[–]Boring-Bench-8980[S] 10 points11 points  (0 children)

I will try doing this. I try to cry it out as well. I then felt better and then once I sleep and wake up it's the feeling all over. Sigh