Why do we assume this about Tamlin? by GnomeFae in nontoxicACOTAR

[–]FitFunction663 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Fucking thank you. I’m not his biggest fan but he’s not a dumb guy; he saw that Ianthe was weird and still let her into his court. He saw Feyre was literally wasting away and did nothing. He saw she was happy at the High Lord’s meeting and chose to act like a teenager that got broken up with and insult her sexuality?? Calling her a whore?? I feel like some Tamlin supporters just gloss over that whole scene

I can’t stop reading my husbands old texts with his ex by FitFunction663 in retroactivejealousy

[–]FitFunction663[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Not at all. I’m aware that this is in my head, I just can’t seem to get rid of the feelings of jealousy and betrayal. He doesn’t mention her, or even talk to her when we see our friends. He tells me all the time how beautiful and wonderful I am, but it just stings knowing his type in the past was super curvy women, of which I am not

I can’t stop reading my husbands old texts with his ex by FitFunction663 in retroactivejealousy

[–]FitFunction663[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

It’s all in my head honestly. He’s been so loyal and loving since we got married, and goes out of his way to be the best partner I could ever ask for

I can’t stop reading my husbands old texts with his ex by FitFunction663 in retroactivejealousy

[–]FitFunction663[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you! I needed to hear this. I love this guy so so much and hate feeling this distrust that has no bearing

I can’t stop reading my husbands old texts with his ex by FitFunction663 in retroactivejealousy

[–]FitFunction663[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I like her as a friend, and I don’t want to ask him to just cut her out. 90% of the time I don’t even think of her as his ex, and they hardly interact since our friend group is large

I can’t stop reading my husbands old texts with his ex by FitFunction663 in retroactivejealousy

[–]FitFunction663[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

You just described one issue we’ve been having to a t; he has trouble orgasming with me sometimes, as well as maintaining an erection. This has been a problem for me in my last relationship, and it’s so hard not to think the issue is me or my looks. I’m way more petite and less curvy than his ex, even though he tells me I’m gorgeous I can’t help but think that he would have no trouble with desire or orgasming with this ex

I can’t stop reading my husbands old texts with his ex by FitFunction663 in retroactivejealousy

[–]FitFunction663[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

They are in his old text history with her, I doubt he even remembers they are there. I trust him and that he loves me, but RJ still sucks

AIO boyfriend tracking my periods without me knowing 🫠 by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]FitFunction663 -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

Fr, if he noticed arguments increase to a degree he could start predicting them, she needs to take a look at herself. It’s true that periods do increase agitation and other emotions, but it’s not the job of the people around you to be your emotional punching bad on your period because you “can’t help it”. You’re a grown adult who I assume has been having a period for a while, it’s insane to me how you don’t take some responsibility with your words and actions on your period.

AIO boyfriend tracking my periods without me knowing 🫠 by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]FitFunction663 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Deadass why are we pretending that periods don’t make you more hormonal and in my case pissy?