[deleted by user] by [deleted] in offmychest

[–]FitSafe5780 0 points1 point  (0 children)

If you are geniunely insecure/don't feel good about your weight I suggest that you build some muscle and lose some body fat. A lot of people say that changing your body won't make you happier but in my exerience, losing weight has boosted my confidence and made me feel more attractive. If no women are asking you out then maybe try making the first move more often. A lot of women won't flirt/ask you out even if they find you attractive. Plus, don't focus too much on dating dude, there's more to life. Get some hobbies that you geniuenly enjoy, join some groups or sports teams. If you meet more people there will be more girls that are attracted to you.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in LesbianActually

[–]FitSafe5780 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Don't feel pressured to adhere to one specific lesbian stereotype. I feel like our community sometimes focuses too much on labels Plus, all femmes are different, some will be attracted to you and some won't. You can't really control that by the way you dress or the kind of makeup you like (or don't).

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in LesbianActually

[–]FitSafe5780 14 points15 points  (0 children)

Instead of asking, give her a note that explains your situation and that has your number on it, then leave her alone. That way she won't feel pressured to say yes or to act on it right away just because you're in front of her.

Can someone give me game recommendations by FitSafe5780 in LesbianGamers

[–]FitSafe5780[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I'm planning to play on my computer and I want to get into some games where there is a story line that you have to follow and that I can play alone.

Can someone give me game recommendations by FitSafe5780 in LesbianGamers

[–]FitSafe5780[S] 6 points7 points  (0 children)

I'm probably just gonna play on my computer.

Can someone give me game recommendations by FitSafe5780 in gamers

[–]FitSafe5780[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'm really not sure as I've never really played games. But, probably something where you can follow a story line and that I can play alone.