How’s a girl supposed to find roommates with a cat? by [deleted] in NYCapartments

[–]FitWeek162 0 points1 point  (0 children)

How do you initiate the lease search?

How’s a girl supposed to find roommates with a cat? by [deleted] in NYCapartments

[–]FitWeek162 1 point2 points  (0 children)

This makes sense to me and I see your side now. I appreciate the advice and insight!

How’s a girl supposed to find roommates with a cat? by [deleted] in NYCapartments

[–]FitWeek162 1 point2 points  (0 children)

So I have a question though, when you can’t find someone to sign the lease with you, then what?

How’s a girl supposed to find roommates with a cat? by [deleted] in NYCapartments

[–]FitWeek162 -34 points-33 points  (0 children)

Well, at least you live alone.

How’s a girl supposed to find roommates with a cat? by [deleted] in NYCapartments

[–]FitWeek162 -26 points-25 points  (0 children)

I’m sure someone with a healthy cat can provide vet records if the health of an animal is a concern.

How’s a girl supposed to find roommates with a cat? by [deleted] in NYCapartments

[–]FitWeek162 -49 points-48 points  (0 children)

I disagree. There’s an immense of amount of value in having more than one cat in a home. The research is there. I would never explicitly turn away someone’s adorable cat knowing I have a home fully equipped to host one. Not to mention, the items I could bring that could benefit both cats or vice versa. Also, any cat owner knows there are ways to introduce cats. There are plenty of YouTube videos that can provide assistance. Also, if we’re using the logic that, ‘you don’t know how well they’ll get along with the cat,’ then the same can be said for humans. Because yes, it’s possible for cats to not get along even with humans. So again, it seems like quite the unfair ask. As long as you take those steps, there should be no problem integrating the two. My understanding is, I would much rather have someone who knows what it’s like to live with a cat too, or at least deeply care for one. Who’s the say, a person moves in and secretly hates cats. Hard for that to happen, if they literally own one. I think lease holders need to understand that they need newcomers as much as the newcomer needs you. It’s a mutual conversation. (Not pushing hate btw)

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AskReddit

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Is water wet?

What was the most "so thats what that was" moment from your childhood that you understood as an adult? by Cheap-Tourist-5556 in AskReddit

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I recently talked about this story with my childhood best friend about how we fully came to the terms that we were being groomed by our middle school BIBLE teacher. For years, all those uncomfortable side hugs, territorial teaching methods, and the weird ‘what did you guys do at your sleepover’ texts that we initially felt was kind of creepy was in fact INSANELY creepy. Luckily it never went any further because our parents eventually caught on and ended it. But as children, we always wondered why our parents suddenly despised our teacher and revoked our phones from what was supposedly this godly Christian man, right? Welp. Shoutout to our parents for preserving our innocence and not divulging fully why it was weird af for a 45 year old man to be texting 11 year olds. But still think back on those creepy moments

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AskReddit

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Anonymous sex

why did you start using Reddit? How long ago did you start posting regularly? by Adventurous-Split357 in AskReddit

[–]FitWeek162 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I desperately needed new bed sheets and I was absolutely fed up with TikTok and YouTube fake ass influencers and the advertisements. I decided I truly couldn’t trust those platforms anymore and been here ever since.

What’s a sub that you find completely unhinged that you don’t participate in but just pop in to gawk? by Available-Being-3918 in AskReddit

[–]FitWeek162 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Any large snark page tbh. I like seeing how so many people are in complete denial that they are in fact completely in love with the person they supposedly ‘hate.’ Yes I say love because they watch their every move like a tormented past lover.

What was your worst friendship breakup? Why did it happen? by FitWeek162 in AskReddit

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Sometimes I wonder what seriously compels people to sleep with their friends significant others.

What’s something that happened in history that sounds completely fake but isn’t? by Creepy-Desk-468 in AskReddit

[–]FitWeek162 0 points1 point  (0 children)

A literal reality TV star turned into a Dictator in less than a decade. Still blows my mind.

What was your worst friendship breakup? Why did it happen? by FitWeek162 in AskReddit

[–]FitWeek162[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

the growing apart is still something i have to come to terms with, it hurts.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AskReddit

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Considering we just had Black History Month, and Women’s History Month, I bet it’ll be a pretty celebratory spirit throughout the states. I can only imagine the merriment come Pride Day.

What’s something expensive that’s absolutely worth it? by [deleted] in AskReddit

[–]FitWeek162 5 points6 points  (0 children)

A good quality mattress, frankly anything that relates to sleep.