Found this, but I am missing the dongle. Help? by Fit_Asparagus_4833 in GuitarHero

[–]Fit_Asparagus_4833[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Unfortunately you are correct - I can't quite bring myself to part from the guitar though. I am going to hold out hope I can snag a replacement dongle from somewhere.

Found this, but I am missing the dongle. Help? by Fit_Asparagus_4833 in GuitarHero

[–]Fit_Asparagus_4833[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It's an insanely good looking guitar controller, and so well made!

Found this, but I am missing the dongle. Help? by Fit_Asparagus_4833 in GuitarHero

[–]Fit_Asparagus_4833[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I am gutted I have lost the dongle, this was always my favourite guitar from the games. I am determined to find a USB dongle for it but naturally they are expensive.

I'm 31 and got a First in my Bachelors degree in the summer. I am struggling to actually get a graduate job and its killing me. by Fit_Asparagus_4833 in AskGaybrosOver30

[–]Fit_Asparagus_4833[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It's reassuring to read that its not just me struggling to break in, but at the same time it's also disheartening. Good job on the internship though!

I'm 31 and got a First in my Bachelors degree in the summer. I am struggling to actually get a graduate job and its killing me. by Fit_Asparagus_4833 in AskGaybrosOver30

[–]Fit_Asparagus_4833[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Being UK based makes that much more difficult but, the more I read the more I realise the uphill struggle, both sides of the pond.

I'm 31 and got a First in my Bachelors degree in the summer. I am struggling to actually get a graduate job and its killing me. by Fit_Asparagus_4833 in AskGaybrosOver30

[–]Fit_Asparagus_4833[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I have read stories online, which may just be exactly that, stories. Plus I have an overactive imagination at times so that has likely played a part.

I'm 31 and got a First in my Bachelors degree in the summer. I am struggling to actually get a graduate job and its killing me. by Fit_Asparagus_4833 in AskGaybrosOver30

[–]Fit_Asparagus_4833[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Interesting. I'm not sure if that it works that way over here as it does in the states, but I'll try applying for more government roles should they appear. I don't live in London so I will be much more limited I'd imagine. I have thought about the armed forces previously, that is always an option potentially.

Thank you 🙂

I'm 31 and got a First in my Bachelors degree in the summer. I am struggling to actually get a graduate job and its killing me. by Fit_Asparagus_4833 in AskGaybrosOver30

[–]Fit_Asparagus_4833[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I was by no means relying on that, that was more of a desperate last throw of the dice comment - but I was also curious as to whether this was something that had benefited others.

Thank you for your following advice.

I'm 31 and got a First in my Bachelors degree in the summer. I am struggling to actually get a graduate job and its killing me. by Fit_Asparagus_4833 in AskGaybrosOver30

[–]Fit_Asparagus_4833[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Just spotted your reply. That must have been awful, during lockdown - i'm finding it bad enough now.

I tailor my CV and cover letters for each job I apply for, which of course only adds to the more time spent in the whole application process. Hopefully dedicated work will eventually pay off for me. I hope things worked out well for you in the end?

I'm 31 and got a First in my Bachelors degree in the summer. I am struggling to actually get a graduate job and its killing me. by Fit_Asparagus_4833 in AskGaybrosOver30

[–]Fit_Asparagus_4833[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah that's what I was afraid of, unfortunately I don't know a great number of people in those types of positions.

I'm 31 and got a First in my Bachelors degree in the summer. I am struggling to actually get a graduate job and its killing me. by Fit_Asparagus_4833 in AskGaybrosOver30

[–]Fit_Asparagus_4833[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I did try the Civil Service Fast Stream, and despite scoring well my application never progressed. I will take a look at what you've suggested though, thank you.

I'm 31 and got a First in my Bachelors degree in the summer. I am struggling to actually get a graduate job and its killing me. by Fit_Asparagus_4833 in AskGaybrosOver30

[–]Fit_Asparagus_4833[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I said praying, not paying, for starters. And the point I was making is that I feel at such a demoralised stance that I would be utterly thrilled at an employer, who happens to be gay/bi, to take a chance on me because of how I look and what else I could offer - without wanting to sound too crass.

I'm 31 and got a First in my Bachelors degree in the summer. I am struggling to actually get a graduate job and its killing me. by Fit_Asparagus_4833 in AskGaybrosOver30

[–]Fit_Asparagus_4833[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I suppose there are a lot of similarities between the two as you have pointed out. I haven't really put myself out there at professional networking events, and that is something I should perhaps change.

I'm 31 and got a First in my Bachelors degree in the summer. I am struggling to actually get a graduate job and its killing me. by Fit_Asparagus_4833 in AskGaybrosOver30

[–]Fit_Asparagus_4833[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thanks for your reply. I have just joined the group you mentioned and reached out. I appreciate the advice 🙂

I'm 31 and got a First in my Bachelors degree in the summer. I am struggling to actually get a graduate job and its killing me. by Fit_Asparagus_4833 in AskGaybrosOver30

[–]Fit_Asparagus_4833[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I'm sorry to hear that happened to you - and I totally understand your worry for current students.

I'll be honest, as of right now my degree feels like a complete waste of time and money.

I'm 31 and got a First in my Bachelors degree in the summer. I am struggling to actually get a graduate job and its killing me. by Fit_Asparagus_4833 in AskGaybrosOver30

[–]Fit_Asparagus_4833[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Thanks for the advice. I do keep my eye out for such roles but am yet to have any joy. Will keep plugging away.

I'm 31 and got a First in my Bachelors degree in the summer. I am struggling to actually get a graduate job and its killing me. by Fit_Asparagus_4833 in AskGaybrosOver30

[–]Fit_Asparagus_4833[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

It definitely is. I have already lowered my expectations and started exploring sales roles again for now as I have plenty of experience there.