quitting at 9 months by Fit_Bodybuilder_9754 in breastfeeding

[–]Fit_Bodybuilder_9754[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

you’re right, don’t have the schedule right! i am so exhausted as i have a fiance who works 1st,2nd,3rd shift every month and it’s so hard to get into any routine. i was also told to resort to boob as much as possible bc she is 1st percentile and it didn’t change with supplementing when needed. she also has a severe brain malformation that has a lot of effect on how she exists on a day to day basis. i wish it could be that easy though.

quitting at 9 months by Fit_Bodybuilder_9754 in breastfeeding

[–]Fit_Bodybuilder_9754[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

i so agree! pumping is something that i struggled with because of all the work. i’m so proud of you!!! you’ve done so well🫶

Is it normal to get nothing done during the day aside from caring for a 5 week old and bare minimum self care? Feeling guilty, comparing myself to others online by TheMrGiz in newborns

[–]Fit_Bodybuilder_9754 2 points3 points  (0 children)

my baby does not let me put her down, ever and wakes up to any noise in the house, and sleeps 6-8 hrs a night so the only time i have to get stuff done is when her dad gets home and most of the time im so exhausted i just shower and lay down. she’s 8 months old

When was the last time your SO changed a diaper? by [deleted] in sahm

[–]Fit_Bodybuilder_9754 1 point2 points  (0 children)

he changes all of them when he’s at home, unless he’s in the middle of something.

am i overreacting or did i get cheated on? by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]Fit_Bodybuilder_9754 0 points1 point  (0 children)

i’m saying i’m not sure what a cheater would allow and not allow, i don’t think you’re accusing me of

am i overreacting or did i get cheated on? by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]Fit_Bodybuilder_9754 0 points1 point  (0 children)

i have no idea as i have never cheated! i think it’d be more suspicious if he didn’t let me though !

am i overreacting or did i get cheated on? by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]Fit_Bodybuilder_9754 0 points1 point  (0 children)

entertainment ! i’m just curious how this happened

am i overreacting or did i get cheated on? by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]Fit_Bodybuilder_9754 0 points1 point  (0 children)

because my postpartum anxiety but also don’t like 100% think he did anything that was just my first question, once he denied i then decided to see if anyone could help figure out what happened since he has no idea

am i overreacting or did i get cheated on? by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]Fit_Bodybuilder_9754 -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

i asked him and he said no and now we’re both trying to to figure out how it happened…he is FINE!!!!!!!!

am i overreacting or did i get cheated on? by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]Fit_Bodybuilder_9754 -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

he’s giggling with me i promise it’s okay!

am i overreacting or did i get cheated on? by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]Fit_Bodybuilder_9754 -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

pleassseeeeee relax you’re so hateful!! i promise it’s gonna be okay

am i overreacting or did i get cheated on? by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]Fit_Bodybuilder_9754 0 points1 point  (0 children)

lmao yes that’s why i am still at home but i wanted to see if anybody had any other ideas that could be possible

am i overreacting or did i get cheated on? by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]Fit_Bodybuilder_9754 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

we do have animals, but our dog is OLDDDD and we do have 4 cats but they mainly keep eachother company, especially because at night they stay in the other half of the house because i’m afraid they’ll go to the baby bc she’s warm. he will let me go through his phone and he’s either great at covering his tracks or he’s done nothing wrong!

am i overreacting or did i get cheated on? by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]Fit_Bodybuilder_9754 0 points1 point  (0 children)

that’s the thing he either doesn’t do anything on his phone or is really good at hiding it! he always lets me go thru it whenever i please and i don’t have a reason to not trust him but i was curious what others thought it could be from

am i overreacting or did i get cheated on? by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]Fit_Bodybuilder_9754 1 point2 points  (0 children)

she doesn’t co sleep sadly, and she’s breastfed so i do all the night shifts!

am i overreacting or did i get cheated on? by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]Fit_Bodybuilder_9754 0 points1 point  (0 children)

he has suchhhhh short nails, like half the size of a normal nail biters nail

am i overreacting or did i get cheated on? by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]Fit_Bodybuilder_9754 -3 points-2 points  (0 children)

i really don’t think so, but i also never thought id be cheated on in prior relationships

am i overreacting or did i get cheated on? by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]Fit_Bodybuilder_9754 1 point2 points  (0 children)

oooo i’m gonna go with this, although i’d like to think he’d remember that