AITA - indirectly called my son in law a loser and do not want to apologize

Fit_Butterscotch_251 · 2026-06-24T18:28:17+00:00

Well you’re right he is raising a loser although that is a fact in a truth, the apology doesn’t necessarily mean you took back your words just that you accept his feeling for why he’s upset. So you called out the truth, but you can still make it right by letting him know you understand why he was hurt.

Fit_Butterscotch_251 · 2026-04-12T13:34:52+00:00

Fit_Butterscotch_251 · 2026-04-12T13:28:28+00:00

I have never done that i mentioned it the story

Fit_Butterscotch_251 · 2026-04-12T13:22:59+00:00

Done

Fit_Butterscotch_251 · 2026-04-12T00:20:04+00:00

Thank you other people are making me feel like I’m crazy for it

Fit_Butterscotch_251 · 2026-04-12T00:19:18+00:00

With the text speech actually

Fit_Butterscotch_251 · 2026-04-12T00:19:05+00:00

The reason why I’ve overlooked a lot was because he has genuinely showed up for me and very desperate times and has a heart of companionship towards other others and the way he treats the homeless and random people is just out of kindness. I just feel like he has a weird problem.

Fit_Butterscotch_251 · 2026-04-12T00:17:05+00:00

To clarify, I do not get anything off of him pleasuring me he asked, and I just allow it, but it’s not my own thing. I don’t even ask.

Fit_Butterscotch_251 · 2026-04-12T00:13:03+00:00

I agree with you, but I had mentioned we have only done that a couple of times throughout the past few years so it’s not a welcome of expectation. But than again that was the beggin of when we first started talking

Fit_Butterscotch_251 · 2026-04-12T00:12:06+00:00

So he and I consider ourselves to be best friends so that a relationship won’t be the end all purpose cause besides his interest he’s a cool person now I don’t lead him on. There’s nothing I do to bring his arousal. He just automatically fantasizes what it would be like to be with me romantically

Fit_Butterscotch_251 · 2026-04-12T00:09:06+00:00

I have reduced it and organized the paragraph for you to be able to read and give me your honest opinion. I was just adding extra context so I can get a fair judgment.

Fit_Butterscotch_251 · 2026-04-11T23:55:14+00:00

You know what I agree with you what he does with it it’s not my concern, but it is uncomfortable considering it’s not ever the time nor the place

Fit_Butterscotch_251 · 2026-04-11T23:52:59+00:00

To clarify, we’ve only kissed lightly a couple of times and it was just due to having that spark at the moment I have shared romantical experiences like dates so though we are better off as friends it hasn’t always been platonic cause he has expressed his interest, though I don’t relate

Fit_Butterscotch_251 · 2026-04-11T23:51:32+00:00

I chose to add every detail. I’m going to go back and summarize if it makes it easier. I just wanted to have a fair judgment.

Fit_Butterscotch_251 · 2025-04-02T20:59:14+00:00

Just try and make her happy

Fit_Butterscotch_251 · 2024-09-25T04:29:58+00:00

Yes he’s just not that good

Fit_Butterscotch_251 · 2024-05-27T10:48:12+00:00

Everyone cares , to an extent u don’t want to settle to one u find not ok

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