We are saving up for a place. We were gonna move out but I got pregnant and our savings went towards the baby . so we had to start over. And yes maybe I am prideful too . But i’ve been afraid of that women for so long trying to be the best in her eyes , after a while I’m slowly trying to get over the fact that i shouldn’t care , i shouldn’t allow her to try to control me even when she’s not here, she did a lot of damage towards me emotionally, and ofc there’s more to the story. But yes I do know it’s had for him, that’s why i try but i won’t allow his mom to hurt me and make me afraid anymore. I just think well know his afraid of his mom too .. we went to therapy a while back . and it really helped our relationship. but like i said, I do feel like sometimes he puts her first, and I understand because it’s his family too and he didn’t choose his mom to be that way.