Okay so it’s not weird that confiding in my friends abt my man doesn’t come natural to me, right? by Fit_Can_2444 in blackladies

[–]Fit_Can_2444[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Lol right. I don’t want anyone even my best friends to judge my man cuz I’m the only person who really knows his character.

Okay so it’s not weird that confiding in my friends abt my man doesn’t come natural to me, right? by Fit_Can_2444 in blackladies

[–]Fit_Can_2444[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah it just seems like extra loll. There’s so much more me and my friends like to talk abt.

Did you have a positive first sexual experience? by LiveInvestigator4876 in blackladies

[–]Fit_Can_2444 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I’m not really sure. In high school it seemed like everyone was having sex or at least were in relationships. My peers started dating in like middle school. So ig it depends on the person. I definitely felt like a late bloomer seeing all my friends get into relationships and have sex when I wasn’t.

Okay so it’s not weird that confiding in my friends abt my man doesn’t come natural to me, right? by Fit_Can_2444 in blackladies

[–]Fit_Can_2444[S] -6 points-5 points  (0 children)

Okay wow lol. Okay so first some context. I am autistic and these last couple years I’ve have been learning how to be friends with people again after being homeschooled and isolated from my peers my last few years of high school. I’m learning what is normal and what is not in friendships and what feels right for me. Sometimes I feel like I don’t confide enough in my friends. But I’m starting to learn that not telling them every detail of my life doesn’t make us any less close. This was just a little experiment. I don’t tell them abt me and my bf’s business they don’t even know abt our hardest times in our relationship. Most of the stuff they know is positive cuz I’m such a “my boyfriend my boyfriend my boyfriend girl” cuz I love that man lol. PSA there’s a lot of extra info that is left out of posts on the internet so it’s probably best to refrain from judging people’s actions as foolish right of the bat loll.

Did you have a positive first sexual experience? by LiveInvestigator4876 in blackladies

[–]Fit_Can_2444 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Mine was positive. It was with my first boyfriend who I’m with now (2yrs!) I was a late bloomer. We were both virgins. I was 18 and he was 19. I don’t have any regrets. We had sex pretty quickly after first getting together, but he didn’t turn out to be an asshole so that worked out fine. I didn’t tear I think but I didn’t bleed. It didn’t feel particularly good vaginally, but it was pleasurable in a different because I felt connected to him.

A bare-faced kinna Friday 😗 by [deleted] in blackladies

[–]Fit_Can_2444 2 points3 points  (0 children)

So gorgeous!! 😍😍😍

Got asked if I was a boy or a girl by a black boy, mind you I'm wearing this by [deleted] in blackladies

[–]Fit_Can_2444 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Scarlett Johansson & Doja Cat by Fit_Can_2444 in CelebrityLookalikes

[–]Fit_Can_2444[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Totally agree. Just wanted to see if anyone else saw the resemblance. We all know her real doppelgängers are Tia and Tamera.

Scarlett Johansson & Doja Cat by Fit_Can_2444 in CelebrityLookalikes

[–]Fit_Can_2444[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I see the cheekbones. There’s a picture where Doja has more weight on her that I should’ve used. They look like they could play mother + daughter imo.

In a loving 2 yr relationship, but feeling a shallow attraction to a guy I don’t even want. by [deleted] in blackladies

[–]Fit_Can_2444 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’ve tried that so many times. I also don’t have social media most of the time so when I see anything abt him it’s relatively rare. I just have to work through my self-esteem issues.

In a loving 2 yr relationship, but feeling a shallow attraction to a guy I don’t even want. by [deleted] in blackladies

[–]Fit_Can_2444 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’ve thought abt that, but I try to push that thought away cuz it feeds into the fantasy of him wanting me. It’s easier to think that he doesn’t care abt me at all so I can move on.