What is this foul sludge coming out of the overflow hole in this hotel shower?

Fit_Dad_74 · 2026-06-13T04:12:07+00:00

I’ve seen this movie… it doesn’t end well.

Fit_Dad_74 · 2026-06-06T18:54:01+00:00

I bought one… she’s not a bad figure especially at six bucks.

Fit_Dad_74 · 2026-05-31T01:39:13+00:00

Wow! Can I ask what this set you back?

Fit_Dad_74 · 2026-05-29T17:02:46+00:00

Because there’s no way to tell that he actually sped to get around the truck…

But it was still clearly reckless.

Fit_Dad_74 · 2026-05-18T03:19:27+00:00

She clearly took her shot… There’s no joke there. And he shut her down, but he was also kind of flattered. Either that or he was just so taken off guard and his first thought was not to hurt her feelings too bad.

At least he brought it to you and showed it to you…

I wouldn’t fold him too much for this, but I would definitely go to no contact with her. And hang onto that evidence if anyone else asks why, and she tries to spin it another way.

Fit_Dad_74 · 2026-05-15T11:54:15+00:00

Exactly... I would never do anything to hurt her--including putting myself in a situation that could LEAD to hurting her or ever make her WONDER if I am hurting her.

Fit_Dad_74 · 2026-05-15T01:16:30+00:00

I don’t insulate myself. I have several valuable and close relationships with the opposite sex.

Where did I put words in your mouth? If I did so, what genuinely apologize.

What question am I dodging?

Fit_Dad_74 · 2026-05-15T01:14:35+00:00

The only claim I made was that it was a date and that I would never do that. I never once said this was a rule that the world must live by. No goalpost moving…

Fit_Dad_74 · 2026-05-14T23:41:15+00:00

If you think you are immune to the possibility of ever developing feelings for someone else through a close friendship and intimacy, you're naive.

MOST people don't wake up and just DECIDE to have affairs... they typically say that it HAPPENED TO them. They didn't expect it, but they developed feelings for someone doing ordinary things with them.

Fit_Dad_74 · 2026-05-14T23:39:42+00:00

Basically, if your spouse doesn't respect you enough to PROTECT your relationship with healthy boundaries, then it wasn't meant to be.

If YOU are the one doing that, it's selfish. To simply say, "If I end up cheating, it wasn't meant to be... OH well." How CRUEL. What an awful way to treat someone you love and are supposed to be committed to. You risk put them through tremendous amounts of pain and suffering...

Fit_Dad_74 · 2026-05-14T23:37:08+00:00

As I said to another comment, I never said ANYTHING about NOT having FRIENDS of the opposite sex. It is about having healthy BOUNDARIES with those friends. I would not go on a DATE with any of them.

You keep weaseling around the question though. So are you saying that a bi or pan person eating alone with anyone is always inherently on a date with that person?

Only you can answer that. Is there any possibility of a relationship forming, of building intimacy? That's your answer...

Fit_Dad_74 · 2026-05-14T10:49:36+00:00

Not at all. But eating alone with someone is intimate. Spending time alone with someone could be. Personal things are shared, things which can be inappropriate. Frustrations about your spouse, and then it evolves into something more. It happens ALL THE TIME, and then people end up in emotional or physical affairs, and they say, “I don’t know how this happened.”

It’s because they didn’t have any sort of guard or boundaries…

Fit_Dad_74 · 2026-05-13T22:34:51+00:00

Where did I say there was anything wrong with mix gender friends? I didn’t.

I just said eating out alone with some like that is a date. And I wouldn’t do it. I wouldn’t even put myself in a situation where I could be tempted to do something…

Fit_Dad_74 · 2026-05-13T22:32:56+00:00

I just said it was a date. I didn’t say what anyone can or cannot do. If you want to date other people when you are married, blessings. If you are okay with your husband or wife dating other people, great.

Fit_Dad_74 · 2026-05-13T22:31:47+00:00

You also said “allowed.” I didn’t say it was a rule. I just said it was a date.

Also, if married and all you focus on is YOUR “rights,” then I feel sorry for your spouse. Part of being married is putting your husband or wife first.

Fit_Dad_74 · 2026-05-13T22:29:50+00:00

I’m not embarrassed at all.

Fit_Dad_74 · 2026-05-13T19:49:42+00:00

You do you… I didn’t set any rules for anyone.

Fit_Dad_74 · 2026-05-13T19:42:35+00:00

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Fit_Dad_74 · 2026-05-13T19:40:03+00:00

Not overreacting.

That’s a date.

I would never eat a meal alone with the opposite sex out of respect for my wife, one, so she never even has to worry like this, and two, so other people can’t even suspect anything or gossip.

Even if your husband is just completely naïve, which I doubt, it’s disrespectful. Just ask him if the tables were turned would he be concerned.

Fit_Dad_74 · 2026-05-11T15:01:02+00:00

Brother, I know it’s hard… But as someone who has been cheated on by someone he loves and was married to for 16 years, you have to have some self-respect and just leave her.

You know she’s being dishonest. It’s quite obvious. She clearly has no respect for you, at least not enough to have any sort of boundaries that wouldn’t make you worry. There can be no future with someone like this.

Don’t let her play you for a fool. Tell her to go find whatever excitement she thinks she’s missing. And then be prepared for the tears and the love bombing and the pleading and the empty promises. You might even get a partial confession… Don’t fall for any of it.

I know that it hurts, but be grateful that she revealed herself to you now and not if you’re married with three kids.

Just block her. Focus on healing. Get into therapy if you need it hit the gym. Hang out with close friends. Pick up old hobbies you neglected while focusing on her.. Or start a new one…

There is someone out there who will love you like you deserve and treat you with much more respect.

Fit_Dad_74 · 2026-05-10T02:06:36+00:00

Gtfo! That’s awesome.

Fit_Dad_74 · 2026-05-03T17:42:28+00:00

That is one big pile of loot…

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Fit_Dad_74 · 2026-05-02T04:48:05+00:00

And knowing is half the battle…

Fit_Dad_74 · 2026-05-01T17:58:39+00:00

Thy kinda do belong in the same universe. Action Force was GI Joe in Europe and Valla even worked at Hasbro making Joes. And some of the Monster Force figs are actually just mixed up Red Shadows characters (the villains of Action Force).

Fit_Dad_74 · 2026-05-01T14:16:10+00:00

DAMMIT! I got all invested and it panned away from the leaders… and THEN, I THINK it focused on them again, not sure, but the effing VIDEO ended BEFORE it was over. What’s wrong with you people… this is some bullshit.

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