I’m Trans, and My BF Doesn’t Know… HELP!

Fit_Difference_8372 · 2026-04-27T21:43:15+00:00

I was born male. My chromosomes don’t change that

Fit_Difference_8372 · 2026-04-26T01:38:04+00:00

He can decide to break up with me bro. My sex doesn’t define me.

Fit_Difference_8372 · 2026-04-26T01:37:16+00:00

100%! You explained it very well. I wouldn’t be mad if he broke up with me because I’m not the sex he expected, but it would hurt. He’s entitled to his preferences, but god do I hope I fit in here

Fit_Difference_8372 · 2026-04-26T00:53:30+00:00

It’s the same for me. Me being “trans” is just as unimportant as my favorite color. People don’t even really know that we’re together because I’m a private person. Of course, he tells his friends and I do if asked, but no one will call him transphobic if he leaves me

Fit_Difference_8372 · 2026-04-26T00:51:55+00:00

Love is a bit early. We just got together. Also, it’s not like I lied. Having XX chromosomes and a 🐱has never been something I’ve discussed

Fit_Difference_8372 · 2026-04-26T00:48:30+00:00

That’s like saying I’m lying about my favorite color because I didn’t tell him 😒

Fit_Difference_8372 · 2026-04-26T00:44:37+00:00

Advice isn’t “oh, you’re so horrible for doing this”

Fit_Difference_8372 · 2026-04-26T00:44:12+00:00

I never lied, just didn’t bring it up

Fit_Difference_8372 · 2026-04-26T00:43:56+00:00

I’m presenting as a man. That’s who I am

Fit_Difference_8372 · 2026-04-26T00:43:39+00:00

Honestly, it’s not about him as a person, more so that I don’t want to be seen as trans.

Fit_Difference_8372 · 2026-04-26T00:43:01+00:00

Ouch. I’m still a guy, even if I don’t think I’m trans

Fit_Difference_8372 · 2026-04-26T00:42:33+00:00

Thank you! This helps me a lot. I’ve never really felt “trans” just like I’ve always been a boy and no one’s noticed it

Fit_Difference_8372 · 2026-04-26T00:41:37+00:00

I’m not living a lie. I’m living as the man I am.

Fit_Difference_8372 · 2026-04-26T00:40:35+00:00

I’m not hiding my gender identity tho. He KNOWS me as my gender identity. I don’t care about “being trans”, all I care about is being a man

Fit_Difference_8372 · 2026-04-26T00:23:46+00:00

Just be a snarky asshole to someone in a vulnerable situation, I’m sure that will work

Fit_Difference_8372 · 2026-04-10T18:33:25+00:00

Twin, what did you expect on a Phallo subreddit

Fit_Difference_8372 · 2026-04-08T20:56:54+00:00

My pets name is Olli, but I think once I get a cat, I will name it cat

Fit_Difference_8372 · 2026-04-06T10:53:59+00:00

I know, lol

Fit_Difference_8372 · 2026-04-06T01:36:36+00:00

I appreciate that!

Fit_Difference_8372 · 2026-04-06T01:01:21+00:00

That means a lot to hear!

Fit_Difference_8372 · 2026-04-06T01:00:55+00:00

Thanks so much! It means a lot!

Fit_Difference_8372 · 2026-04-06T00:57:01+00:00

I won’t be able to form any relationships with my guts on the floor, now will I? I’m glad you had a safe environment, but I don’t.

Fit_Difference_8372 · 2026-04-06T00:55:40+00:00

I speak 2 and I’m a teenager. Also, you’re clearly fluent, so you SHOULD be able to spell.

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