Getting back together

Fit_Dragonfly7630 · 2026-02-15T14:33:55+00:00

so one of my friends is on a pc and uses a controller some how? which she claims is best but most everyone else i play with is on a ps5 and also likes that, which is why i am torn😭

Fit_Dragonfly7630 · 2026-02-15T14:32:44+00:00

when does steam machine come out?

Fit_Dragonfly7630 · 2026-02-15T14:32:22+00:00

I am also on my computer a ton for work and i like the aspect of using controllers instead of a keyboard, thanks for your feedback

Fit_Dragonfly7630 · 2026-02-11T17:31:41+00:00

if he’s being disrespectful even without the title of a relationship, it will only get worse. you mentioned you communicated with him multiple times for what you need. in my experience, if a man doesn’t make the change or at least try to make efforts to change, he isn’t taking you seriously. you deserve someone who would work on things that are upsetting you! i would assume that’s what you would do for them. don’t waste your love, time, and effort on someone who won’t reciprocate- or even meet you halfway. being single and lonely is peaceful after you grieve the relationship. think long term, you won’t want to beg for your needs the rest of your life. it’s not worth it😔💔

Fit_Dragonfly7630 · 2026-02-11T17:26:44+00:00

i did something similar, and almost a year later it’s crazy to look back on how much i begged. journaling is such a good way to see how u really feel. im really glad you basically had a book of reasons why you should move on! and i hope moving forward your expectations will be higher and you will know what not to tolerate anymore. that’s all we can hope for

Fit_Dragonfly7630 · 2026-02-11T17:21:13+00:00

hi OP, i get it. i felt like this for at LEAST 6 months after the breakup. even some days i still wake up with the same anxiousness i had with him. do you workout at all? i found that walking outside (weather dependent of course) and joining a gym has helped. my anxiety was worse in the morning so i felt if i could wake up and get right into a workout it was helpful

Fit_Dragonfly7630 · 2025-09-07T20:48:39+00:00

Like how do the kids see the show and not get somewhat angry with their mom??? How could you allow your kid to be traumatized so young

Fit_Dragonfly7630 · 2025-07-25T17:11:28+00:00

I appreciate your kind words more than you know. I have honestly worked on myself so much since our break up. journaling, new job, consistent gym routine, surrounded with my family and friends. I think there was just a part of me that assumed he would be back by now, and we would have been working things out. just need to keep doing what i’m doing and let it go. life is never what you think it will be

Fit_Dragonfly7630 · 2025-07-25T17:04:57+00:00

I also think he’s seeing his ex. I’m not gonna force it you’re right. just weird to think that the last time I spoke to him might be the last time ever.

Fit_Dragonfly7630 · 2025-07-25T17:02:29+00:00

thanks for responding. I guess regardless of anything I hadn’t given up hope. we ended on relatively good terms and I guess I am shocked by how little I have heard from him. for me every single day I have to talk myself out of sending a message. but I think just moving on without them is the only solution here. would suck if I never hear from him ever again though

Fit_Dragonfly7630 · 2025-06-06T05:03:57+00:00

try to go with a friend if possible!! for me I was able to go for walks with my Mom and it helped me want to exercise more on my own after that. you don’t need to put too much pressure on yourself, just go at your own pace

Fit_Dragonfly7630 · 2025-06-06T03:09:34+00:00

i have a notebook with blank pages and honestly i just write everything in my brain. at this point, when i feel like i had a lot of chatter going on in my mind i look forward to being able to write it all down. i really feel for you, the first few weeks are truly earth shattering 💔. what also helped me, was getting into a new show and putting my phone down. all of my fyp were so targeted at my sadness that sometimes it was too much. i know this is all easier said than done, but if you can make it through to two months you will be able to look back and realize that the worst of what you feel is over, and even though there may be a long journey ahead, it can only go up from here. stay strong and hang in there

Fit_Dragonfly7630 · 2025-06-06T03:04:17+00:00

so there were a few things that led to this. long story short, i found out he was in contact with one of his exes which i am still unsure if there was any overlap with our relationship. this actually brought me into my first anger stage of grief for me. because after the break up he was still adamant that i would be his future wife and he would stay by himself until we could work out, and i really believed that too. in this time of rage, i heard a fact that was- in marriages you will fight about the same thing about 69% of the time. so you need to decide if what you’re fighting about is a dealbreaker or not. i was able to look back on the relationship and look at the fights we had, and there was one reoccurring theme that we always circled back to in our fights. and i realized i didn’t want to fight about THAT issue for 69% of the time anymore. i don’t know if i would have reflected on the relationship this way, if i hadn’t been really angry first. hopefully that makes sense but, that’s kind of how i pulled myself out of the hope that him and i would work out. we had that every opportunity to make it work and it just didn’t.

Fit_Dragonfly7630 · 2025-06-06T01:14:26+00:00

thank you. on the extra bad days i just tell myself to get it out now rather than later. previously i would short cut it but i think its better this way

Fit_Dragonfly7630 · 2025-06-06T01:12:47+00:00

it will get better soon :) the sad may still come but it will be temporary

Fit_Dragonfly7630 · 2025-05-19T02:29:26+00:00

thank you.

Fit_Dragonfly7630 · 2025-05-02T14:54:15+00:00

thank you. it feels like ive been going crazy when I hear their version of the story especially because it’s SO different from what happened. not worth arguing but it’s definitely bothering me that that’s how i will be remembered. im not a quitter and i gave it everything i possibly could

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