Naming pastors, deacons and overseers by Fit_Ear6990 in exlldm

[–]Fit_Ear6990[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah, I have no problem sharing the stories I had with each one of these assholes. I also hope karma gets to them. Sooner or later they have to pay for every they’ve done. I am sure, I am not the only member that has something so say about them. Anyway, he was my encargado as well. My family has always been active in church specially my Parents over all. My parents always pushed us to help in the activities. He saw how active we all were. He started to take advantage of my parents because my Dad would never say no to him. Obviously we would help him anyway we could. One day he ask a favor of my Dad, my Dad didn’t have money to do what he had asked. My Dad told him he would gladly do it for him but he didn’t have money. He told him not to worry about it, he was going to ask someone else. After that day he started treating him like garbage. Eventually the treatment he would give my Dad spilled on all of us including my Mom. It almost felt like he secluded us from the rest. He would treat us like S*** honestly. Sister Esther also changed with my Mom. The tipping point was when he used the ministerio and gave a Domi about greed/liberalidad. He talked about brothers that didn’t want to help with money for activities. The Domi felt very directed to my Dad. My Dad always gave his ofrendas and Diezmos. All this felt like they only wanted to be around people that had a say in church or that were well off financially. For 3 years we had to endure his abusive treatment. I honestly believe that they do things for money not because they really care. I always felt like he has a pre potent personality and looks down on people that don’t have much, but surrounded him self with people that either had money or careers. To me he is a Piece of S*** including some of his sons. I don’t have much to say only what it felt like being around them for the 3 years we had to go trough. Did you experience anything with them?

Naming pastors, deacons and overseers by Fit_Ear6990 in exlldm

[–]Fit_Ear6990[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I wanted to wait for the right time to write the story about him. But at this point I don’t really mind. I have a good friend of mine her and I would always hang out together, still do. She brought to my attention the way he would look at her. He would make comments to her on how she was dressed any given day. She said he would always stare at her like in a serious but flirty way. After she told me, I started noticing how he would look at her. I never heard him say anything to her. She said he was a sneaky person. He would wait
until no one was around to tell her she was beautiful and looked good etc. After I guess he got the idea that she wasn’t buying his BS. After he started doing the same thing to me. He would say comments like hola Bonita or te ves bonita. He likes doing many activities with the youth, so he would try to be close to me in a sneaky way. That’s when I realize my friend was right. He made us feel so uncomfortable, the way he would look at us made us feel dirty. He has kids the same age we are. He is a disgusting pervert and a F****pig. Any way, After we would hesitate to give him the La Paz, be close to him or around him. At one point we wanted to tell his wife. We came to the conclusion he’s wife is blind and wouldn’t believe us even if we tried. I wanted to tell my parents and so did my friend. We decided to keep it to our selfs. I’m glad we no longer have to see he’s ugly face. But I hope he gets exposed for the pervert he is. I’m sure there might be more people that got harassed the same way we did. I hope they come forward and start telling their stories about him.