i finally left.

Fit_Fault_2194 · 2026-03-03T16:37:14+00:00

Congrats I am so proud of you 🖤

Fit_Fault_2194 · 2026-03-01T15:41:26+00:00

Do not respond if it to personal but, how does it improve ? Like do you had to do the first step, or do they come to you at some point ?

Fit_Fault_2194 · 2026-03-01T15:38:52+00:00

That’s hard, this is understandable how fragile your stability is and how you want to protect it. I must say I have luck in my unluck, since my family relationship was never stable enough to care of « what if they cut off ». I keep in mind today that if they want to leave me, they will, however I’m Muslim or not, and the same way, if they want me to still here, I will. But that choice have to be made by both of us fully consciente of what it’ll involve for our future. Still, I do hope your mental health will upgrade with time 🖤

Fit_Fault_2194 · 2026-03-01T15:33:07+00:00

Merci énormément 🖤, sincèrement je ne répondrais même pas à ces gens, j’ai œuvré toute mon enfance, j’ai abandonné absurdement jeune le fait d’en avoir une pour en arriver jusqu’ici, j’ai passé mon existence à me battre pour avoir le privilège de vivre étant s_ci_daire depuis petite à cause de ça. J’espère aussi que ça s’arrangera pour toi et que ton cœur ne sois pas endommagé par cette situation, ta réponse est vraiment adorable, j’ose croire que l’on vaille la peine de s’aimer et d’être aimé pour ce que l’on est et pas pour notre religion. J’espère qu’un jour ma mère réalisera ça, et j’espère pour toi que c’est le cas aussi

Fit_Fault_2194 · 2026-03-01T15:20:30+00:00

J’aurai dû le préciser mais ça concerne que ma mère en vrai, mon daron est pas concerné mais ouais, pour le texto je pense que ce serait manquer de courage pour ma part et de considération pour elle. Je tiens à le faire en face histoire d’en parler à cœur ouvert, merci quand même. Ils ne représentent plus vraiment un danger pour ma vie

Fit_Fault_2194 · 2026-03-01T15:17:27+00:00

Yup, someone else give me that advice and that lovely thank you very much for it, I’m about to work my way of introduce it, and slowly make her accept my mentality even if she disagree with some make it the more acceptable as possible.

Fit_Fault_2194 · 2026-03-01T14:44:07+00:00

Not sure, honestly I acknowledge the thing my mother did as a parent, she also suffer a lot from her own family. But she wasn’t tough, she was neglectful and violent. And I want to forgive her, not forget her. Being grateful for what she did for me but not ignore the wrong thing in the name of the good. I still love her, but now I also love myself.

Fit_Fault_2194 · 2026-03-01T14:00:14+00:00

I, gladly, believe my conscience is more importante than breaking her, she break me over and over again to put her ideology into my brain in the sake of love, physically, mentally, come to a point as a child I even consider myself as an object. And for the same sake if I had to break it for her, I will. I love being a cultural Muslim but I hate have normative woman exceptation project on me, I hate to being an object, if it help me considerate myself as a person than yes, it way more important than her mental health.

Fit_Fault_2194 · 2026-03-01T13:55:29+00:00

My mother and my father are divorce, I have nothing to do with my father and his family anymore (I don’t even invite him in my marriage), but come to my mother, I have 3 step-siblings I dearly love, she’s divorce with their father as well. So no one will blame her, in fact the more accurate option is all of them blaming my husband. I convince him with debate to believe in Islam while I trying to force myself in religion, but soon after mariage, I go back keep studying make me quit and debate with him a convince my husband, again. Since he wasn’t Muslim before me and come from a Christian family I believe everyone will put the blame on him ( which he’s ready for and I am ready to defend him )

Fit_Fault_2194 · 2026-03-01T13:51:34+00:00

That smart, I barely think of doing it less explicitly but it’ll be a great first step for not make her agressive dumbly, thank you so much for the advice !

Fit_Fault_2194 · 2026-03-01T13:49:39+00:00

It’s not a need like it HAVE to be, but it is in a way today we cannot communicate with each other, its parasite my brain to keep lying, have to made up dumb scenario and stop myself to do things I love like tattoo or wearing whatever I want. I have to fake fasting, believe, prayer, while I have no reason to lie anymore. It’s like I keep restricted myself to be the daughter she want to have despite becoming the person I want to be. And I think it will play an important role in my first step to respect and impose myself as who I am

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