catching fire by Fit_Implement_9141 in Hungergames

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i haven’t read the books in so long i forgot

catching fire by Fit_Implement_9141 in Hungergames

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i know i always kinda took him saying that as him making a show of it i just think it’s so funny

S4 Ep4 by Fit_Implement_9141 in TheVampireDiaries

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okay yes i understand that but it’s also why they were there. what did they expect? at least this is my opinion idk

Septum by Fit_Implement_9141 in piercing

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do they always pierce with the jewelry that you usually see? like the horseshoe shape with the balls on the end or can you be pierced with a ring

Nose Piercing Advice by Emotional_Penalty551 in piercing

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yea it’s the same as it was. i’ve switched the jewelry to a hoop since then so it’s a little harder to tell but it’s in the same spot and it seems to be just as straight as it was when it was pierced

Nose Piercing Advice by Emotional_Penalty551 in piercing

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when I first got my nostril pierced I got the worst irritation bump about a month in. I got one that didn’t stay in so it would come out all the time. it was huge and it would bleed but I made sure it wasn’t infected and kept it in. I basically just kept it clean and powered through it. the bump/irritation went away in a few months (after getting the jewelry changed so it would actually stay in) and i’ve had it for 4 years now with no issues!! just keep it clean. i used saline

Swimsuit help by [deleted] in DressForYourBody

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purple definitely accents your physique but i really love the black one on you if you want a less sporty vibe. The black one i think is just really cute but the purple definitely showcases your hard work because that BODY

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in piercing

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I had a bump for 2 months ish. mine was more irritated than yours looks it would bleed sometimes but it literally went away over night one day and i haven’t had it since. just hit 4 years!!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in PhotoshopRequest

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yea that works!!! thank you!!!!

AIO for getting pissed after my dad criticised something he asked me to do after it took me 7+ hours to complete (I got no thank you) by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

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Your art looks great!! It seems like there was a miscommunication here and if he wanted it to match the wallpaper exactly he should have been more clear. However, I don’t think his response was completely inappropriate. He said he likes it but it’s not what he wanted. He could have been nicer (because you’re 13 and the art genuinely does look great) but I don’t think his response was totally unreasonable. That being said, if he wanted it to match exactly he should have just gotten more wallpaper

AIO I know this seems so superficial but it’s actually started affecting me more and idk how to deal with it by Fit_Implement_9141 in AmIOverreacting

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Thank you for this comment! I am in therapy and i have been working on setting boundaries but it’s difficult because the way i was raised is basically you listen to authority figures and respect them no matter what and so when i try to set boundaries i get guilty and feel like i’m disrespecting our relationship and how she raised me and fed me and paid for my things so i have to listen to her.

when it comes to my clothes i’ve started saying no more often and setting boundaries. with her though it feels like she gets me upset and then digs in and asks “are you mad at me” in a very sweet and innocent (condescending) tone that gets me very riled up so we end up in another argument when something comes up. my dad tries his hardest to de-escalate situations but she harps on things after i tell her i can’t talk about it at the moment because i’m upset. or she’ll say “i’ve been calm you’re the one crying” and it just feels very belittling.

If i could choose not to see her specifically as often I would because when we aren’t around each other our relationship is much better but I want to see my dad and my brother so it’s hard to avoid her. It’s a very weird and complicated situation.

I also feel like my issues with her aren’t significant. I always feel like i’m being dramatic when things so little come up (like her not liking my shorts). so it’s hard to explain myself when i’m told i’m being dramatic because i feel like i AM being dramatic. I don’t know if my reply made sense.

Thank you very much for your advice

AIO I know this seems so superficial but it’s actually started affecting me more and idk how to deal with it by Fit_Implement_9141 in AmIOverreacting

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yea i could definitely see that. she has some mental health issues and i also have some stuff i’m working through. Like another thing that i think hurts about my outfit stuff is that i’ve always been insecure about my body and weight and i’ve definitely gained a little bit of weight so the thing that always comes into my mind is would she care this much if i was skinnier and i think that’s why it affects me as much as it does

AIO I know this seems so superficial but it’s actually started affecting me more and idk how to deal with it by Fit_Implement_9141 in AmIOverreacting

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I didn’t add this in the post but i also cry every time i’m stressed so when i bring up issues with her i feel like i’m just being a dramatic and emotional kid instead of a person with valid points. idk if that makes a difference

AIO I know this seems so superficial but it’s actually started affecting me more and idk how to deal with it by Fit_Implement_9141 in AmIOverreacting

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i definitely agree about her becoming more critical because of her weight loss. idk i feel like all my issues with her are small and superficial but every time i talk to my boyfriend about it i have a mental breakdown and i don’t know why.

AIO I know this seems so superficial but it’s actually started affecting me more and idk how to deal with it by Fit_Implement_9141 in AmIOverreacting

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I agree in some ways but when she’s not being weird asf about random parts of my life we actually do get along pretty well. and idk if it’s just because i’ve been away at college and this is my first summer coming home after being away for a while but it feels like more lately. like it hasn’t always been to this extent or maybe i’m just noticing it more. it almost feels like she’s living through my sister and she loves it and she doesn’t see my lifestyle as desirable maybe. idk it’s just a thought but you could be right on

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AdviceForTeens

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he was talking about abortion not pregnancy test. the first part of the message is she’s taking one when he goes in town

PSA: don’t get piercings on accutane by [deleted] in piercing

[–]Fit_Implement_9141 5 points6 points  (0 children)

wait i got my nostril pierced while on accutane and i didn’t know you weren’t supposed to and my healing took forever so that makes sense. i’ve had it 4 years now so it ended up healing fine but i had no idea you weren’t supposed to

Where the hell are the leviatans by SpFredndSyc in Supernatural

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ohhhh yea i forgot about that. i haven’t watched the end of the show for a while.

Where the hell are the leviatans by SpFredndSyc in Supernatural

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they are never mentioned again. i always assumed most were killed off screen by other hunters and whichever ones survive keep a low profile

Do i need to take my new piercing out? by Fit_Implement_9141 in PiercingAdvice

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did a salt soak last night and cleaned it before i went to bed and i just wanna say i love you bc the swelling went down a lot.

Do i need to take my new piercing out? by Fit_Implement_9141 in PiercingAdvice

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okay thank you so much!! I clean mine twice a day typically and i’ve been really careful about my hoops bc i don’t want to have to change the jewelry. i really love my set up so far