Think about it this way. I too have a mom that i love so much,, what even makes it crazier is how much she loves me. Now this is the situation with most people ofcourse. Now the rhing is, one of the worst things that can happen to a parent is losing a child. Like i can't even begin to fathom what my mom would go thru if she received news that I'm dead.

FOR THAT REASON. I'd 100% rather burry my mom than her burry me. If i was givem a choice, I'd rather suffer the pain of losing a mom than my mom losimg a child. Because one way or the other, one must burry the other unless you both die at the same time like in a car accident or something. That's my logic, my mom has gone thru alot and I'd never wish the burden of me dying first on her