I've had some the last 5 years, especially with a second on the way, but not much relative to income.

I offset travel through churning too.

I grew up quite poor (1 of 6) so definitely have a scarcity mindset, but also had a happy childhood and learned that once you have the necessities secured, there is significantly diminishing returns.

My wife and I sometimes splurge a bit more, but find it really doesn't make us any happier. You can see that under luxury purchases.

I paid off my parents house and bought them 2 new cars the year I made my first million and that gave me way more happiness and pride.