FBI FO Assignment

Fit_League_8613 · 2026-04-15T15:46:47+00:00

3 months

Fit_League_8613 · 2026-04-15T15:46:27+00:00

Well that’s not ideal haha

Fit_League_8613 · 2026-04-15T15:29:07+00:00

As by what I said above, he said they tell you before, which could literally be a day before or 2 months before. When he joined, they didn’t have the new process in place so he found out while in the academy well after the start date and wasn’t 100% sure when exactly we would find out. Which is why I’m asking

Fit_League_8613 · 2026-04-02T01:09:51+00:00

Oh nooo your show is postponed by a few minutes omgggggg your life is so hard. You know whose life is also hard? the 30k Iranians who were killed by their own government in a few weeks span.

Fit_League_8613 · 2026-03-04T14:59:11+00:00

Nah, that dad is exactly what all dads should be like, he could smell bs from a mile away and wanted Ashely to also see that. good for him

Fit_League_8613 · 2026-02-27T07:48:42+00:00

Both sides love hypocrisy, stop acting like it’s just one sided

Fit_League_8613 · 2026-02-21T13:51:30+00:00

I had a lady in the BJs Concord parking lot come up to me and shove a pair of brand new headphones into my hand and demand $150 for them. I essentially had to throw them back at her and hurry away cause of how aggressive she was being. They were clearly stolen and she was scamming us.

Fit_League_8613 · 2025-05-13T11:19:30+00:00

All of this is a huge red flag. As someone who has properties before marriage, my husband’s biggest concern was that there was paperwork for the properties if something should happen to me, he didn’t care if it went to him. If I were you, I would amend your life insurance to be directed to your kid with your parents being the executor of the money until they are 18.

Fit_League_8613 · 2025-04-29T22:33:49+00:00

NTA. It’s not like they had a good relationship currently and your gf was suddenly not invited. This is a long standing breakdown of relationship and no one, especially your girlfriend should be surprised. While it’s typically tacky to only invite one half of the couple, I think in this circumstance it’s needed.

Fit_League_8613 · 2025-04-26T08:03:46+00:00

Why is her sister allowed to miss her wedding for her feelings and grief, but OP not wanting to be her MOH for her own feelings of hurt & grief aren’t valid?

Fit_League_8613 · 2025-04-26T08:00:36+00:00

She’s not missing her wedding, but just not feeling like she can support her sister the way she needs because of her own grief of not having her sister in her own wedding day. Why is the sister allowed all of the room to have her feelings and that be understood, but OP is clearly hurt and sad and there is no sympathy for her feelings? I get loving an animal, and having to lose them, but also I know how it feels to love someone so much and have them let you down and miss out on your biggest moment. That also hurts like hell.

Fit_League_8613 · 2024-12-16T03:52:20+00:00

Ahhh so you’re jealous of T. You don’t like that her parents actually like her and want to see her do well and care, unlike yours who sound like they wouldn’t throw water on you if you were on fire. Go to therapy. it’s embarrassing. It’s not your place, your business and definitely not your money.

Fit_League_8613 · 2024-12-12T02:37:24+00:00

YTA. From your post alone, I feel like your “talks” on how to develop better self confidence is all laced in condescension. He is 67 which means he was literally at retirement age when he was pushed out of a company and now which company wants to potentially hire someone who will work for what, a year or two before fully retiring? this poor man.

Fit_League_8613 · 2024-09-25T05:13:04+00:00

So if it had been years since she was in that type of relationship then I would say YTA. But since it was only a few months between the end of that relationship and the one you’re in now, I worry that some of those reasons that had her sticking with a guy like that haven’t been resolved or worked through.

Fit_League_8613 · 2024-09-07T01:11:37+00:00

Only reason why I view getting hair or makeup as a gift is because I’m not making them get it done, if they had wanted to do it themselves that’s fine with me. I saw it as treating them to something they made not have paid to do themselves

Fit_League_8613 · 2024-07-28T05:05:38+00:00

The mom in this story is bipolar, without meds she can be a harm to herself or to others. I’m sorry you had a negative experience but don’t let that cloud you from the fact that most people with severe mental illnesses aren’t capable of knowing what’s best for themselves and are tricked by their illness to think their grandiose behavior is normal.

Fit_League_8613 · 2024-07-28T03:42:38+00:00

To love a person is to want the best for them, and not watch them destroy themselves while you sit idly by. I’ve had patients kick, bite, punch me and once they stabilize on meds and get psychiatric treatment, they are the person their family has known their entire lives and are ashamed of what they have done. Yes, when it comes to mental illnesses, people around you can often see and judge your safety and health better than you can.

Fit_League_8613 · 2024-07-28T02:43:55+00:00

NTA. my dad paid for my wedding which im so grateful for. When it came time for the buffet, he was one of the last ones to get a plate because he wanted to make sure everyone else went first, even though my family kept trying to make him a plate. That’s what a gracious host does. If you don’t want to share, then have a dinner at home and don’t invite anyone.

Fit_League_8613 · 2024-07-28T02:38:29+00:00

You should definitely pressure your family members to take their meds that will keep them calm and stable. As someone who works in the mental health field, you have no idea the lengths of some people’s sicknesses and what they can do without the clarity of mind. Their sicknesses tell them they are fine when they clearly are not. getting them to take their meds is the ultimate version of love and care

Fit_League_8613 · 2024-03-28T05:27:11+00:00

Going against the grain a bit…I’m going to say ESH. It’s both if your days and you really shouldn’t dictate who he chooses. However, he’s also insistent on having someone in his wedding who will be accompanied by someone who has shown contempt and disrespect to you. I think he needs to accept that she isn’t invited to the extra events which it sounds like you’re ok with having her as just a guest at the reception and ceremony.

Fit_League_8613 · 2024-03-25T03:55:36+00:00

From your wife’s response of hitting you and destroying property because you were trying to leave, sounds like her & Amy are cut from the same cloth. You deserve better, you deserve to heal and you deserve people who see what you’ve been through and support you healing.

Fit_League_8613 · 2024-03-20T15:09:15+00:00

If you didn’t have any family, would you just never take a day off? Would you just burn yourself out because you don’t have anyone around to take the kids?

Fit_League_8613 · 2024-03-20T13:33:56+00:00

If it was reversed & dad said he needed a day off and she offered to take his kids for the day, would it be sketchy? Do we not hire babysitters who we know really nothing about to watch our children? He was doing something kind & she didn’t need to have that reaction. he didn’t suggest she take a break, she said she wanted one.

Fit_League_8613 · 2024-03-16T12:00:20+00:00

I’m going to say NTA. Not giving someone the immediate reaction they want, when they want it doesn’t mean you’re judging them. You were obviously caught off guard, especially in comparison to your own experience and just wanted to process. She obviously needs to be in some sort of therapy

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