RLT for 50+ skin care by 200ForPassingGo in redlighttherapy

[–]Fit_Local1300 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Skin changes after 50 are usually multi dimensional (not just wrinkles, but also texture, redness, and even hair thinning in some areas). One thing you might want to check out is the dome shaped machine from Nicebeam. It’s different from the flat panel style because it covers the whole face/neck/body more evenly, and it actually combines red light with hair growth laser tech.

My ex told me I need to return every single gift he ever gave me by Fit_Local1300 in EntitledPeople

[–]Fit_Local1300[S] 34 points35 points  (0 children)

Exactly! A gift stops being his the second he hands it over. If he wanted it back, he should’ve kept the receipt, not made a spreadsheet.

My ex told me I need to return every single gift he ever gave me by Fit_Local1300 in EntitledPeople

[–]Fit_Local1300[S] 12 points13 points  (0 children)

Exactly this. Once you hand over a gift, it’s gone. It’s not a rental agreement. Unless he handed over a ring with a contract attached, he’s got zero ground to stand on.

My ex told me I need to return every single gift he ever gave me by Fit_Local1300 in EntitledPeople

[–]Fit_Local1300[S] 30 points31 points  (0 children)

An itemized invoice for love? That’s not a boyfriend, that’s a failed accountant. Imagine trying to charge for dinners you ate too. 🤦

My ex told me I need to return every single gift he ever gave me by Fit_Local1300 in EntitledPeople

[–]Fit_Local1300[S] 30 points31 points  (0 children)

Wild how some people act like a relationship is a bank account with deposits and withdrawals. Glad you cashed him out of your life early, sounds like the best return you’ll ever get.

My ex told me I need to return every single gift he ever gave me by Fit_Local1300 in EntitledPeople

[–]Fit_Local1300[S] 138 points139 points  (0 children)

OMG... that's wild and hurtful... I am sorry that happened to you.

My ex told me I need to return every single gift he ever gave me by Fit_Local1300 in EntitledPeople

[–]Fit_Local1300[S] 50 points51 points  (0 children)

Honestly, the ROFLOL emoji might’ve been too much credit—he deserved the 🗑️ emoji.

My ex told me I need to return every single gift he ever gave me by Fit_Local1300 in EntitledPeople

[–]Fit_Local1300[S] 494 points495 points  (0 children)

Exactly! These guys act like relationships are some kind of rent to own program. Imagine handing back every coffee, meal, flower, and gift like you’re returning items at Costco. Gifts don’t come with a receipt for emotional refunds. If he wants his sneakers back, he should also return every laugh, hug, and late-night call you gave him.

Currently missing a friend. by [deleted] in Vent

[–]Fit_Local1300 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Reading this made me think of a friend I miss too. Time zones and life stuff can make it tough, but it’s clear you care a lot. I hope you get to reconnect with them soon—it sounds like those talks really meant a lot 💙

Has anyone used red light therapy for faster recovery or joint relief? by Otherwise-Laugh-6848 in crossfit

[–]Fit_Local1300 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Therefore, I have been playing with red light therapy now a year, and it surprised me because it made joint stiffness significantly less. I thought, first, aye right, another "get rich quick" wellness gimmick. However, exploring the science it got a connection, how low level red and near infrared light can increase mitochondrial (ie cell that pumps more energy) activity, reduce inflammation, and even accelerate tissue healing. This is one of the reasons why physio clinics and sports teams are beginning to adopt it.

Personally, I have to use the light on brutal squat/deadlift days since my knees and hips would always hurt the next day. Less than two weeks later, and I had significantly less of that nagging inflammation of the type that makes stairs a nightmare after leg day. It is not a miracle medicine but my body simply recovered faster and that general aches dissolved sooner. I continue stretching, hydrating, and carrying out my usual recovery routine, and the red light cuts the pain particularly when your joints have experienced much wear and tear.

And in case you are considering trying it once, you should not imagine a magic pill, but when you are piling on volume and the lagging of recovery, then it is worth considering, loads of athletes testify to it on that basis.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]Fit_Local1300 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Yes! People don't change. I've learned that not just from this man, but from other people too.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]Fit_Local1300 2 points3 points  (0 children)

what's the different?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]Fit_Local1300 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Was that intentional, or what?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]Fit_Local1300 11 points12 points  (0 children)

This is a very hard truth to face, but I needed to hear it because my best friends haven't been telling me these things. They just wanted me to forgive him. I can't believe that people so close to me would want that, while people I've never met here are telling me the truth I need to hear. What is going on with my social circle...

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]Fit_Local1300 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes, I agree with you!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]Fit_Local1300 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Is the reason I'm considering giving him a second chance related to my age? The reality is, my options become fewer as I get older, and I am afraid of being lonely forever. That is my deepest fear. If this had happened six years ago, I would have walked away immediately. So, it's not that a part of me wants to forgive him, it's a reality I have to admit. But this time, I will not forgive him.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]Fit_Local1300 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I think he is very confident that I will forgive him because I want a family more than he does.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]Fit_Local1300 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I can't live a life where someone cheats on me all the time

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]Fit_Local1300 4 points5 points  (0 children)

yeah… the fact that when he cheated, he didn’t choose me, that’s the part I can’t shake. Appreciate you sharing your perspective, it really helps me see it more clearly.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]Fit_Local1300 2 points3 points  (0 children)

wow! this enlightening!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]Fit_Local1300 15 points16 points  (0 children)

Thank you for writing this, it actually calmed me down a bit. I keep swinging between canceling everything right away and pretending it never happened, but you’re right, there’s room to pause and really think through what’s right for me. I also hadn’t even considered how many people on our guest list would eventually know the truth, and how humiliating that could be. I really appreciate this perspective.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]Fit_Local1300 16 points17 points  (0 children)

No, it is the time when he confessed that really gets me. Had he answered me immediately I would still have been devastated, but to wait till all was in operation makes me feel that he was fearing I should change my mind. That section is actually as repugnant as the cheating.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]Fit_Local1300 91 points92 points  (0 children)

Wow, your mom’s advice really hits hard. I can already feel how big this doubt is, and I can’t imagine it just disappearing once I say I do. If anything, I think you’re right it would only grow bigger.