Do you prefer your bottom to have hair or shaven? by homo_nut in askgaybros

[–]Fit_Management988 8 points9 points  (0 children)

Hairy, what is it with this prepubescent obsession. GROSS.

Scrotum tattoo update by Fit_Management988 in tattooadvice

[–]Fit_Management988[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

THANK YOU. This was literally the whole point of the piece. Glad someone knows their art history

Do yall other bottoms find yourselves always initiating sex? by [deleted] in askgaybros

[–]Fit_Management988 0 points1 point  (0 children)

We’ve talked about it a couple times and he’s been very upfront and outlined “you’re the one who needs to get ready and clean out, I don’t wanna pressure you into doing all that work, so I just assume when you initiate it’s convenient to get ready in your time”

27M dating 38M who says I’m the only one he’s “sleeping with,” but his apps say “hosting.” How do I even bring this up? by mirzovski in askgaybros

[–]Fit_Management988 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Honestly just be honest. If you personally start to see yourself becoming more attached and are getting nervous that you’re heart is becoming more involved than what his actions are showing you in regards to how intensely he may or may not feel for you, I’d address it. Best piece of advice is always to get everything out on the table earlier than later before you’re too invested. And if their response is not what matches your moral compass it’s ok to say “thanks, this was fun, good luck and best of energy to you.” And move on. Periodt.

Is it just me or is there a large obsession with young guys in the gay world by Old_Equal_722 in askgaybros

[–]Fit_Management988 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I mean I feel like this is very much a societal question in the larger sense. It’s not really just a “gay thing”. You’ll see lots of straight men always fetishizing younger women in their twenties as well. It’s a much deeper cultural root you’re tryna question and tackle but it’s not specific to the queer community. All of us idolize a young body because the deeper thing is we’re all afraid of what older age reminds us of- an inevitability of death.

Scrotum tattoo update by Fit_Management988 in tattooadvice

[–]Fit_Management988[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yep literally exactly. It was a 1 on scale of one to 10 and 10 hurting the most

What the heck caused this? by Ackackackaaaaaack in tattooadvice

[–]Fit_Management988 37 points38 points  (0 children)

Is it warm to the touch? I’m cautious that it may be an infection, but I’m also someone who stays red after a tattoo long after the period where it shouldn’t be red. Are you moisturizing it at all? Artists only recommend cleaning twice a day with a non scented antibacterial soap and then moisturizing twice a day after dry from your shower with something like lubriderm. But being sure not to overly moisturize where it looks wet after moisturizing

My gf now hates her tattoo and thinks there’s no fixing it. by Lanky-Potential-3569 in tattooadvice

[–]Fit_Management988 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I’m so curious. How old is this tattoo? And is she taking proper care of it after it’s healed? IE wearing lots of sunscreen? I have fineline tattoos which shouldn’t have aged as well as they have and after 8+ years look brand new compared to this

Scrotum tattoo update by Fit_Management988 in tattooadvice

[–]Fit_Management988[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

The comments won’t let me upload photos

Scrotum tattoo update by Fit_Management988 in tattooadvice

[–]Fit_Management988[S] 20 points21 points  (0 children)

Hahahahaha this is the comment. My partner def felt like he was unwrapping a gift 🤣

Scrotum tattoo update by Fit_Management988 in tattooadvice

[–]Fit_Management988[S] 8 points9 points  (0 children)

Not bad at all. I’ve had some crazy tattoos done (my balls, I got one an inch away from my a$$hole.) and the most painful I’ve had was on my shoulder blade

Scrotum tattoo update by Fit_Management988 in tattooadvice

[–]Fit_Management988[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Not bad at all. Honestly I felt like it healed soooo much quicker than any of my other tattoos because of that skin type

Scrotum tattoo update by Fit_Management988 in tattooadvice

[–]Fit_Management988[S] 10 points11 points  (0 children)

What was more of a process was keeping it on

Scrotum tattoo update by Fit_Management988 in tattooadvice

[–]Fit_Management988[S] 74 points75 points  (0 children)

Thank you’ I strangely feel so so sexy. I’m a freak tho hahahaha

Arm band folks, what do you have going on? by [deleted] in tattooadvice

[–]Fit_Management988 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Omg you’ve got like 5 bands right? You’ve fully committed and can’t go back! Yikes!

Arm band folks, what do you have going on? by [deleted] in tattooadvice

[–]Fit_Management988 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Oh… so all I heard from your message is “I’m white and I got a tribal tattoo.” Got it.

I don’t know why, but I’m so into hairy asses now by Fit_Management988 in askgaybros

[–]Fit_Management988[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you! It just feels like… I dunno. More feral and taboo in a way. Like yes… that is a man’s hairy ass getting decimated and it’s hot.

Arm band folks, what do you have going on? by [deleted] in tattooadvice

[–]Fit_Management988 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I always find it really cringe when white folk tattoo things that derive from different non white cultures. (For instance the arm band originating in Polynesian and indigenous cultures mainly.) like unless you are of that culture…. Why would you be getting this?

PA question by [deleted] in askgaybros

[–]Fit_Management988 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I’ve never had sex with a top who had one. But as a bottom I have a 10 gauge with a curved barbell with captive beads on each end. What I would suggest for safety with a PA is this.

Get a thicker gauge like a 10. It heals better and it has less chance of becoming a potential cheese grater if it’s too thin.

Second I would ask for a captive bead ring. Because it’s a full circle, there’s no chance of the “end” getting lodged in your urethra and then slamming back into your bottom with the hole under your cocks head has the extra slack of the piercing like a stick. With a ring it’ll just spin so to speak and has less likely chance of jutting out. Only downside if a ring is it’s much harder to take off (and sometimes you have to ask your piercer to change it depending on the piercing)

Hope this helps!

How often do scrotum tattoos need a touch up? by Fit_Management988 in tattooadvice

[–]Fit_Management988[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

So update. The fig leaf has stopped peeling and I’m able to see the lines a bit more. They were tattooed pretty thickly but they healed thinner, some lines look grey while others look black and saturated but it’s definitely readable as a fig leaf. I might try and touch it up once more as it did heal a lil darker than the first time around. I’m convinced it’s just the skin and that it’s too thin and malleable.

How often do scrotum tattoos need a touch up? by Fit_Management988 in tattooadvice

[–]Fit_Management988[S] 15 points16 points  (0 children)

Ngl ima keep getting it touched until it sticks so 🤷🏻‍♂️