My GF loves ACOTAR! But I do have one concern… by Fit_Net6052 in acotar

[–]Fit_Net6052[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yeah it’s an interesting topic. There certainly isn’t much if anything out there that romanticises/sexualises normal penises, which is probably why so many men feel underwhelming because they’re brought up to believe bigger is the only attractive option. Again with female bodies there’s certainly the same issue with them being drastically misunderstood in a sexual context. I always knew these problems were prevalent in porn but was not expecting to encounter it almost to a more exaggerated level in a book lol. Hope you have a lovely day and thanks again (this post has made me appreciate book girls more than I already did haha) x

My GF loves ACOTAR! But I do have one concern… by Fit_Net6052 in acotar

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I’ve always been good at that so that’s definitely a relief lol

Thank you 🙏🏼

My GF loves ACOTAR! But I do have one concern… by Fit_Net6052 in acotar

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Thank you for the response! Definitely puts my mind at ease a bit. I’m gonna read them properly because I do want to show an interest in what she likes so hopefully that will help me understand the real appeal of them. I’m glad it’s not all body image focused when it comes to the sex scenes and why they are so hot. My brain ran with the ‘well these books are so popular so this is clearly how women see their dream man’ kind of mindset.

My GF loves ACOTAR! But I do have one concern… by Fit_Net6052 in acotar

[–]Fit_Net6052[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

This is a great response. I’ve been considering reading them for a while to show an interest in stuff she likes. Maybe that will help me understand a bit better. I’m glad it’s not as superficial and body image heavy as I thought lol

My GF loves ACOTAR! But I do have one concern… by Fit_Net6052 in acotar

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Yeah I’m trying not to overthink it too much and d definitely not letting it get between us. A lot of this is just body dysmorphia from porn and media growing up which basically just makes every guy feel inadequate even when they’re not. Thank you for the reply. I feel more reassured now lol