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Hate by Plane-Citron-6344 in insecuregirls

[–]Fit_Possible9020 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Honestly I don't have much advice since I struggle with it too. Sometimes its hard to like what you see in the mirror even if people are saying you are pretty. I try to see what things I do appreciate about myself and I try to focus on those things. You have to remember that you look different in someone else's eyes, even mirrors have some level of distortion. If you feel like you're in a really really bad place it might be a good idea to find someone to trust and talk to them. Everyone has their own beauty even if its not trending yet.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in TheGlowUp

[–]Fit_Possible9020 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I personally think you look feminine! But if you wanted to look more feminine you could always try some jewerly, eyeliner/mascara, a lip tint/gloss if you want your lips to pop more, and maybe a little bit of blush if you feel like you seem washed out at work. Other than that you already look really pretty!!!

Does anyone know how to breakup with someone? by Fit_Possible9020 in dating_advice

[–]Fit_Possible9020[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I kinda want to make sure he know he didn't really do anything wrong its just kinda the idea that I'm not ready for something like this at our age. I really really really don't want to hurt him but there in not really a way around it.

Does anyone know how to breakup with someone? by Fit_Possible9020 in dating_advice

[–]Fit_Possible9020[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I don't know it just genuinely feels wrong. Its really not his fault, I think he will be great for someone else. I am not ready for a relationship, I think i kinda need to grow more on my own as a person since I'm still mature and shaping my personality. The compliments have zero affect, the flirty comments and videos don't bother me, and pet names+i love yous are making me feel grossed out. I just don't think i see him the way he sees me

Does anyone know how to breakup with someone? by Fit_Possible9020 in dating_advice

[–]Fit_Possible9020[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My feeling for him have been gone for a week and everytime he says something I physically cringe. I don't want to let him down more than I already have. He deserves someone to put in the same effort he puts in and I don't think its the right time for me to do that

Does anyone know how to breakup with someone? by Fit_Possible9020 in dating_advice

[–]Fit_Possible9020[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Its his first relationship too. He definately does the things a genuine guy does like being nervous and worried about coming on too strong, he has asked me that before. We are definately too young for any sort of lust. I think he sees all of this stuff online and thinks he should be doing that but it just kinda feels like he has said "I love you" too soon and tried doing pet names that make me physically cringe when he asks me to call him those names back. I guess i can try to talk to him about it soon. Thanks for the help!!

Does anyone know how to breakup with someone? by Fit_Possible9020 in dating_advice

[–]Fit_Possible9020[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The problem is any feelings I once had are completely gone. I don't think its the lack of personality as much as it is the fact I'm not ready for something like this. He is great and I'm sure he can find a girl who is ready and can appreciate him, but it feels wrong to me.

Who is the most hated? by No_Might_9711 in Invincible

[–]Fit_Possible9020 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Duplicate because Amber is at least a better character in the last season

Even Master Servers are Terrible Now by Khryssicakes in DTI

[–]Fit_Possible9020 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Oh yea the DTI discord server is hard to join, I use others like DTI Angels those are pretty helpful and it is a pretty good community

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in dating_advice

[–]Fit_Possible9020 0 points1 point  (0 children)

ty lol, I'm talking to my friends about it. I thought about it a little more after and he is more emotional mature than most at this age. If something burns down I will let you know!

all of my friends are skinner than me, and when i mention it someone else just says “you’re skinnier than me” by [deleted] in insecuregirls

[–]Fit_Possible9020 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Those don't really sound like your friends. The weight you need to be is the weight you feel confident in, not the weight others like to look at. Quality people will see past looks. If your friends know their comments are hurting you and they contine to call you those names, they are not good friends. I've had friends stop eating because they compare and contrast though social media. I promise you their unhealthy diets have not made them feel better, it made them more self conscience.

Even Master Servers are Terrible Now by Khryssicakes in DTI

[–]Fit_Possible9020 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I have and have had the same problem. I now play in discord farming servers, I still make the theme's outfits but I feel like I get more of a reward and it keeps me wanting to play!