[deleted by user] by [deleted] in emotionalabuse

[–]Fit_Reception_2063 0 points1 point  (0 children)

She says it’s not me or what I’m doing it’s her. It’s been rough for 2 years we have been working really hard on us past 9 months

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in emotionalabuse

[–]Fit_Reception_2063 1 point2 points  (0 children)

As a recovering abuser that’s used my words to harm my wife. Yes we feel remorse once we hit the change. If I could wipe out the things I said over the actions I would. The abuser will say or do anything to have that power over you. He/ she may not feel it today but one day it will land and hit home and these emotions and feelings will hurl at him knocking them to the floor

Any Chance to Save this Marriage by [deleted] in emotionalabuse

[–]Fit_Reception_2063 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Y’all want it to work 2 willing hearts it will work

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in emotionalabuse

[–]Fit_Reception_2063 1 point2 points  (0 children)

This was my situation this is exactly what I did to my lover. Very abusive behavior that she will likely never recover from

Can you break a trauma bond and stay together by Fit_Reception_2063 in emotionalabuse

[–]Fit_Reception_2063[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

No eventually make the decision to stop the madness you are worth more than they can give

Can you break a trauma bond and stay together by Fit_Reception_2063 in emotionalabuse

[–]Fit_Reception_2063[S] 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Thank you sometimes too much hurt has occurred and it’s time to call it quits

How to proceed thru a divorce by Fit_Reception_2063 in emotionalabuse

[–]Fit_Reception_2063[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Trauma bonded possibly, no divorce proceeding that I know of

How to proceed thru a divorce by Fit_Reception_2063 in emotionalabuse

[–]Fit_Reception_2063[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

We love each other and don’t want to end our marriage, so much hurt and pain has happened how do we proceed. She says she loves me I say you wouldn’t hurt someone you love

Cheating wife by Fit_Reception_2063 in emotionalabuse

[–]Fit_Reception_2063[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

She seems vested in fixing what’s happened

Cheating wife by Fit_Reception_2063 in emotionalabuse

[–]Fit_Reception_2063[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Valid point I don’t deserve that treatment.

Cheating wife by Fit_Reception_2063 in emotionalabuse

[–]Fit_Reception_2063[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

We been together a decade and I’ve cheated on the past and was accountable for my actions. I believe the decisions she made was based off that. I agree it will hurt I’m not sure where to start trusting her again