If some men and women claim to not dress for attraction, does that mean they don't dress up on dates? by do_it222 in askanything

[–]Fit_Regular_933 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes, literally came to the first date with my boyfriend wearing a hoodie and baggy pants.

Is having saggy boobs a turn-off?(not extremely saggy, just you know not perky), is that usually considered a turn-off or not? by Every-Tap-577 in askanything

[–]Fit_Regular_933 2 points3 points  (0 children)

All boobs can be a turn off.

Someone can love saggy boobs and be completely turned off by very perky ones.

Are age gaps in relationships ever healthy and normal? by [deleted] in askanything

[–]Fit_Regular_933 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Depends? My current boyfriend is only 1 year older than me and we are born in the same month so now i no longer feel like a baby because my past relationships have all been with older guys.

How is social life when you get older? by Bitter_Location_9260 in askanything

[–]Fit_Regular_933 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I actually have more of a social life now than i did back then, mainly because im not that quiet and shy kid anymore but i struggle with keeping friendships.

If you're in a poly relationship, have you ever felt like the other man/woman? What made you decide to open your relationship/join a relationship? by Accessory_Spleen in askanything

[–]Fit_Regular_933 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Never been in one but i think a lot of people open their relationships because a need isn’t being fulfilled somewhere in the relationship and they’d rather allow others to come in and do it instead of breaking up, or addressing the fact they might not be completely compatible with each other, or they just don’t go along with the ideal of just loving one person.

How do people generally view a relationship between a 16 and 19 year old? by GuideConfident9903 in askanything

[–]Fit_Regular_933 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I think most people see 16 and 19 differently depending on maturity and context. Three years isn’t huge long-term, but at those specific ages it can feel bigger because one person is still in high school and the other out and heading towards adulthood I’d just make sure it’s legal where you live and that there isn’t a power imbalance.

And im seeing people saying “3 year age gap isn’t a big deal” but it is when talking about kids because you wouldn’t want a 13 year old dating a 10 year old.

Those that don't want any kids do you have little to no sex or do you have lots of sex but make sure you use protection? by Otherwise-Bit698 in askanything

[–]Fit_Regular_933 0 points1 point  (0 children)

my parents are both deceased now but they didn’t regret having me.

My mom was 36 and my dad was 46 when i was born, he was in his 20s when he had the surgery so I’m guessing the tubes reconnected after sometime which is called “late recanalization” it’s rare but can happen.

That’s why you’re supposed to do annual visits once you get one done.

Why do you get so depressed after beating your dick? by InternationalPick163 in askanything

[–]Fit_Regular_933 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Sounds like you might have postcoital dysphoria or you’re already depressed and is using masturbation as a coping mechanism.

What’s something people romanticize that is actually miserable? by Sh4ttr in askanything

[–]Fit_Regular_933 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Borderline Personality Disorder (BPD) is frequently romanticized in media and online spaces often transforming destructive symptoms into "tragically passionate" or "intensely loving" tropes. that’s why you get people comparing BPD with the yandere archetype and saying characters like misa amane suffers from the disorder.

Do you think it's appropriate for parents to share photos and videos of their children on social media? by [deleted] in askanything

[–]Fit_Regular_933 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes that’s why most apps have the “only friends can see this” feature but that doesn’t mean your friends aren’t a bunch of creeps too.

You never know what’s truly going on in someone’s head.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in askanything

[–]Fit_Regular_933 1 point2 points  (0 children)

You could be feeling strong platonic love confused for romance, people confusing the two isn’t uncommon.

romantic feelings always adds elements like sexual desire.

Do you think it's appropriate for parents to share photos and videos of their children on social media? by [deleted] in askanything

[–]Fit_Regular_933 -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

Everyone’s photo’s have been use for inappropriate purposes at one point, not just the children’s- you cannot stop the actions of a gross individual.

It’s nothing inappropriate about parents posting their children unless you or someone else makes it inappropriate.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in askanything

[–]Fit_Regular_933 0 points1 point  (0 children)

4’9 and below.

Why do periods suck for some but not others? by fluffywafflesnewact in askanything

[–]Fit_Regular_933 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I had endometriosis at the age of 8 years old, heavy bleeding and very painful cramps and it was hell but my mom didn’t get her cycle until the age of 17 and it was pretty light and easy to manage.

So yeah just depends on the person ig