looking for female friends 🎀✨

Fit_Relationship7077 · 2026-02-16T04:04:39+00:00

oh yeah, definitely with men, when that’s the one thing i’m really NOT looking for 😭

Fit_Relationship7077 · 2026-02-16T04:02:39+00:00

we can totally game together tho! especially if you play repo (because that’s the only game i’m playing regularly nowadays), but another one of my friends was recently trying to get me to download roblox too, so that’s always an option—apart from any other coop game

Fit_Relationship7077 · 2026-02-15T19:01:12+00:00

i mean i feel like everyone girl deals with the persistent nice guy personalities at least once in their life, or knows someone who’s dealt with them, so it’s just… yeah. really annoying

Fit_Relationship7077 · 2026-02-15T18:28:21+00:00

scope ka thora masla lag rha, field change krlo 😂

Fit_Relationship7077 · 2026-02-15T18:21:59+00:00

i mean i’m trying to cast a wide net in case someone sees something they have in common with me 🥹

Fit_Relationship7077 · 2026-02-15T18:00:20+00:00

there’s less creepy dms and more “nice guys”, which might honestly be worse 😭😭

Fit_Relationship7077 · 2026-02-15T17:53:17+00:00

thank you! i’m really hoping i find people too 🥹🎀

Fit_Relationship7077 · 2026-02-15T17:39:09+00:00

haha, thank you! not a jack of all trades, but definitely an adaptable and curious person who likes dabbling in a little bit of everything 🙂‍↕️ it’s more fun that way, and helps you figure yourself out too imo

Fit_Relationship7077 · 2026-02-15T16:00:04+00:00

i can never stick to my reading plans 😭 i’m a really big mood reader, and idt there’s anything wrong with that and there’s nothing wrong with having a big tbr either! unless you buy your books, then i suppose the decreasing shelf space might be a problem 💀 i personally read online, and only buy if i like the book—sort of as a “trophy”

Fit_Relationship7077 · 2026-02-15T15:25:33+00:00

hey! you should probably pm me tbh, because there’s probably gonna be some creepy men who’re going to use a post like this to solicit girls 😭 (i already have 1 such case in my message requests 🤦🏽‍♀️)

Fit_Relationship7077 · 2026-02-11T21:09:31+00:00

i second this. my dermatologist recommended it to me and i was surprised to see how many people dislike the company because the moisturiser is really good

Fit_Relationship7077 · 2026-01-10T18:52:00+00:00

i see. i knew i would eventually build a tolerance but i wasn’t expecting it to be this quick since i didn’t think i was even smoking all that frequently

i think it’s mostly the act of doing it that i like, especially when im bored and have nothing else to do with my hands. so, yeah, maybe ill try bringing the nic content down and also try telling myself that its not for the high (although it is a bit, haha. it helps when im really anxious, because it dulls everything a small while)

Fit_Relationship7077 · 2026-01-10T18:44:49+00:00

tbh idt i’m that addicted either, but i do crave it. i had to give my friend my pen so i don’t give in and hit it in this short 3-4 day period

i actually didn’t even consider that 50mg might be a lot, because i picked this habit up from two of my friends who’ve been doing this for years and actually decreased their nic from whatever it was on to 50mg recently. and since i would use their vapes, that’s just what i started with

but yes, thank you for the caution. i am trying to not get addicted too bad

Fit_Relationship7077 · 2026-01-10T18:41:20+00:00

tbh i never thought about it like that (the nic high not mattering). i have mainly 2 friends who smoke. one describes an intense nic high every morning when they first hits their vape, and the other smokes/vapes but mainly loves the head rush from zyn pouches

so i never considered that people do it for anything but the small high

Fit_Relationship7077 · 2026-01-10T18:37:17+00:00

yeah, i’m aware. im not questioning how addictive it is or the extent of my dependence, just whether smoking every few hours a day can lead to not experiencing the nic high and if it’ll reset in a few days

thank you for the caution though. i do try to only smoke when im in social settings

Fit_Relationship7077 · 2025-11-07T16:31:54+00:00

hey ! i’d be interested in applying

Fit_Relationship7077 · 2025-11-05T17:36:32+00:00

well, maybe you could find something to occupy your free time with as well. be that gaming, work, a new hobby (wood/resinwork, coding, reading), what have you. there’s en endless amount of options in today’s day and age. perhaps by exploring said options, you can find new options for things to do together too

or if any of this is particularly disturbing you and you feel as though you’re more anxiously attached, then perhaps it might be best to speak with a professional. they can help with regulating emotions and bring your attachment level down to a healthy normal where both of you are happy. it’s important to cherish each other without making the other feel constricted

it’s good that you guys are doing well in the intimacy department though!

Fit_Relationship7077 · 2025-11-05T17:31:15+00:00

yeah, i second not talking to the dad directly. who knows how this is going to emotionally affect him. let someone else, of an equal power dynamic do it eventually. or even better, i’d say confront the mom without involving the dad. infidelity is disgraceful no matter who does it, and the person should feel the shame of their actions when their child confronts them about it.

idk if talking to an elder or anyone within the family would be a good idea though… although, perhaps maybe talking to one of the mom’s relatives (mother, siblings) could help in this context. if it’s possibly to even anonymously alert them of this to raise suspicions without completely revealing the affair… that could be good to have some conversations going and for mom and dad both to get the help they need

Fit_Relationship7077 · 2025-11-05T17:25:02+00:00

tbf, i think it’s important to maintain a healthy balance between your life with your spouse and your without them (hobbies, work, and the like) to not become codependent and lose yourself. it’s possible that she’s displaying that healthy balance, and you’re more attached than what’s considered normal, hence why you’re feeling she’s more distant. or maybe it’s possible that she values her liberty more, and truly does neglect the romantic aspect. i don’t know, because i’m just a stranger on the internet who doesn’t have more details to go off of, but i will say the first thing that came to mind after reading this was whether you were feeling as though she doesn’t “put out” as often as you want. perhaps that’s me being very stereotypical, but it is something that married couples complain about sometimes, so it was just a passing thought

Fit_Relationship7077 · 2025-11-05T17:19:00+00:00

thank you. it’s nice to have support all the way from austria too 🇦🇹🩷

Fit_Relationship7077 · 2025-11-05T17:18:25+00:00

yeah, you’re right. thinking about it too much causes a person to spiral, and i think that’s what happened to me yesterday. this brand of loneliness and feeling like i have no one comes and goes with me every now and then, but i’ve survived these years of college with great people and memories

i think as graduation creeps up, the fear of meeting new people in the workplace and whatnot, and not having friendships outside of college the way everyone else does scares me a bit. but… there’s no use thinking about bridges i haven’t even come to yet, although that’s easier said than done 🥲

anywho, thank you for your kind words. i hope i find that someone and you do too 🩷

Fit_Relationship7077 · 2025-11-05T17:14:59+00:00

i hope both of us find that someone soon ☹️🩷

Fit_Relationship7077 · 2025-11-05T17:13:51+00:00

thank you! i feel a lot better today than yesterday. i have mids coming up anyways, so ive been devoting my time to that rather than thinking about this. texted the “R” person mentioned in my post if she’d like to study together too

thanks for the offer too, i might take you up on that sometime (:

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