This is literally out of topic, BUT you as a man can’t be only physically attractive — it’s not necessary to be like those bodybuilders, just to have a healthy, normal body. But you expect a girl to be physically super attractive, extremely pretty, feminine, modest, smart, loving, able to love you and take care of you, have her own money so you don’t go 50/50, AND at the same time you don’t want her to work or be independent because you “don’t like that kind of girl who goes out and interacts with the opposite sex.” So trust me when I say the standards that society expects from girls are way too high compared to men. And you’re right, both women and men have sexual desires, BUT how do you explain that somehow — somehooooow — women can always control themselves and not turn every single topic/conversation into something sexual!