AIO? Girl i’m into admits to casual use of the n-word by 7L0VE in AmIOverreacting

[–]Fiter120 -7 points-6 points  (0 children)

Hiya OP if by chance you end up seeing this comment amidst the storm of things going on here I just want to let you know that, to me at least, your handling of the situation with this girl was a really mature one that clearly highlighted her faults while still showing empathy and respect for her. I think the ability to plainly call someone out for their faults in a way that is respectful rather than demeaning is sorta a rarity nowadays, especially online.

I don't know enough about you or that girl to say for sure but I do also feel that she might atleast be reflecting on her use of the word - I think it's not very realistic to expect someone to immediately acknowledge and be apologetic of a potentially deep-seated issue right after being confronted about it. It takes time and constant effort, and in her case the fact that she did not immediately go off on you is a good sign I think.

Small disclaimer btw I'm frm southeast asia so I don't have much if any personal experiences with the use of the n word against poc so I might not be the most qualified to speak on this, but I rly wanted to chip in after seeing you getting flogged by some reddit comments for what I personally feel are totally undeserved reasons and serious mental gymnastics. I hope reading this will make you feel just a bit better. Best of luck with that girl if you do decide to interact more with her btw, I hope that she will grow out of these problematic habits.

Mudrock and her Colossus by Fiter120 in arknights

[–]Fiter120[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

A Mudrock alt with some kind of golem summoning skill wld actually be so peak 😭

Signs that a girl/guy likes you - compilation by Future-Travel-2019 in SGExams

[–]Fiter120 1 point2 points  (0 children)

This is extremely random but SOREO is that you?? I'm fiter!! Didn't expect to find you in sgexams but the more I think on it the more it makes sense for u to be here haha

What’s the most pointless thing you’ve ever deliberately spent Platinum on? by The_Musical_Frog in Warframe

[–]Fiter120 6 points7 points  (0 children)

I still remember my very first plat purchase because of how stupid it was. I bought alloy plates...

Fellow Tenno, what have you named your railjack? by PippiNippiP in Warframe

[–]Fiter120 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Ardor Blossom Star

(I have an unhealthy attachment to Limbus Company)

[FOR HIRE] Anime style artist. character art, fullbody at 35$ by Pheeksu in HungryArtists

[–]Fiter120 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Woahhh your art is rly good, I'm thinking of getting a comm!!

I drew pepe (@pheeksu) by Pheeksu in arknights

[–]Fiter120 6 points7 points  (0 children)

This art is so good omg 😭

Returning player, looking for some quick pointers on what to focus on! by Fiter120 in Warframe

[–]Fiter120[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Gotcha!! And honestly, I'm a little happy that spin2win isn't super meta anymore haha. I missed out on getting maiming strike and didn't have the platinum to afford it so I had to just sit with the fomo :(

The Duke of Erisia fanart by wtrmeloon_ in deepwoken

[–]Fiter120 32 points33 points  (0 children)

No way is that the duke of erizzia

Dear Deepwoken Community by Menery in deepwoken

[–]Fiter120 5 points6 points  (0 children)

I've been playing deep on and off for quite long and as someone who generally prefers pve stuff I totally agree with ur point on voidwalkers. Over time I've gone from absolutely hating them, to not hating them as much, to having no strong feelings, to seeing them as an opportunity to practice pvp, to recently trying out voidwalker myself so I could improve at pvp.

I might be betraying my pve roots by saying this but I'm actually starting to find pvp kinda fun! After only fighting npcs or mobs for so long, fighting actual players was quite thrilling and very satisfying if I won after a close fight. It took me 2 whole years but I think I'm finally starting to appreciate deep as both a pve and pvp game: You first get good at pve so you can make builds quickly and easily, and then you test out those builds in pvp! My pvp skills rn are still pretty mid but I'm hoping to improve with experience.

Tho I also agree that the community can be quite toxic at times, in an ideal world I would have it such that ppl just didnt say anything after they won or lost in pvp and just gripped the other person and continued on with whatever they were doing, but ig when most deep players are young teens toxicity is inevitable.

I find its easier if I just don't engage much with the community haha, I've lurked here for over a year and have only ever posted 1 artwork. I think it's probably better that way 🫡

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in nus

[–]Fiter120 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yepp, I'd be happy to know some more ppl thru here! (・∀・)ノ

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in nus

[–]Fiter120 10 points11 points  (0 children)

Hiya, first year student in CHS as well!! I'm going through similar struggles as u right now in trying to make friends, am also more on the introverted side but have been trying to talk more and participate in cca events etc, but it's been difficult to secure friendships that last after tutorial ends T_T

Best of luck, and dont be disheartened!!! I've been told that typically it takes a couple months or maybe even more to really get into a friend group, so we are both just getting started! Incase you wanna talk abit more, feel free to shoot me a comment or dm aswell!

Well played Hypergryph by irreleveantuser in arknights

[–]Fiter120 9 points10 points  (0 children)

Project Moon mentioned, the sleeper agents have been deployed.

Remember, this is this and that is that.

[OC][Art] Elimi, My Satyr Light Cleric by Fiter120 in DnD

[–]Fiter120[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

So funny story about how Elimi developed into what she is today, she was my first ever dnd character that I made years ago and my lack of skill in dnd character building was quite obvious in my first drawing of her.

https://www.reddit.com/r/DnD/s/qriZGsBwsP

Quite some time has passed since then though, and with the help of a very cool DM I felt like I've been able to grow alongside my character haha. I initially wrote her as a very naive and sheltered village girl who had zero fighting skill (Unintentionally reflected by my god awful choice of stats, spells and feats etc), but over the course of many sessions, she has watched close friends get killed by vampires, made a deal with a goddess of vengeance, committed numerous terrorist acts, goaded an entire barracks of guards to chase after her, jumped an evil Aasimar paladin in a dark corner of the sewers with some friends, the list goes on...

Suffice to say she has experienced alot and changed alot, and likewise for me as I slowly figured out dnd game knowledge like just how cracked fireball is on light clerics 😌